Stems aren't really supposed to protrude, so it sounds like the cup is actually too long (or you could trim the stem a bit). If the cup is also pressing on your rectum (anything remotely firm does the exact same thing to my bladder, so I feel you) you may feel better with something softer. I know the Lunette 1 isn't rock hard or anything but there are plenty of softer cups out there. The shape on that one is also kind of funky so maybe a U-shaped cup (Si-Bell, Fleur) would just fit your body better. Even a size Large of some type that would sit around your cervix rather than under it (it may not press against the same part of your rectum and constantly feel like you're running to the bathroom). The small/large size choice is really only dependent on your capacity needs, not whether or not you've had a kid.
Wow! I had very similar issues when I first started trying out my cups. I actually had two different sizes of the same cup. The small one gave me cramping and had the stem stick out, but the large one did not cause cramping or stick out despite being the same length. Because I had both, I mostly stuck with using the larger size, however I was still always curious why the smaller hurt and wouldn't go in.
I wonder if it has something to do with positioning. Like por_que_no said it is possible a larger cup may "sit" better. However, I know some will tell you to try to figure out you cup before trying a new one. So, don't give up. Carry back up protection (pads, tampons, or whatever you prefer) and lubricant. I discovered lubricant was the best way of helping my cup go in all the way, otherwise it would get stuck low. To be honest I have not figured out my smaller cup yet; I may try again. This is just my experience and I know everyone is different, but thanks for sharing, it makes me feel I am not alone in my struggles.
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I wonder if it has something to do with positioning. Like por_que_no said it is possible a larger cup may "sit" better. However, I know some will tell you to try to figure out you cup before trying a new one. So, don't give up. Carry back up protection (pads, tampons, or whatever you prefer) and lubricant. I discovered lubricant was the best way of helping my cup go in all the way, otherwise it would get stuck low. To be honest I have not figured out my smaller cup yet; I may try again. This is just my experience and I know everyone is different, but thanks for sharing, it makes me feel I am not alone in my struggles.
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