Internet Dating Strikes Again

Aug 05, 2010 22:36

I know, I know, you'll all tell me I should have learned and not ever gone back to online dating... but it's a bit tempting and once you take a quick look, it's like a rabbit and headlights - just can't look away ( Read more... )

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astemudfoot August 6 2010, 00:50:00 UTC
Wow. Everything is a fetish these days isn't it? I mean, if you say you'd like to shag with your boots on it'd be considered a "shoe fetish."

Back in the old days *cough cough* when I was a'courtin' we just liked stuff. Or at the most it was considered..... *peers around and then whispers* foreplay. *giggle* Fetishes were often unique and unusual, like, for people who only orgasmed when they were painted green, while pissing on the hungry hungry hippo game with all thier limbs tied together yelling "Viva Las Vegas!".

I was having a similar thought the other day during another conversation. People these days are just too fond of labels. Does it sound tougher or sexier if you call it a fetish? If so, I better tell my Husband I have a clean dishes fetish, or a post-vaccuming the whole house fetish. Yeah, that'll work.

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celsa August 7 2010, 12:21:47 UTC
I think I had a similar conversation the other day and I might have been venting about how it's not possible to like something in a non-sexual way without someone with that fetish-about-fetishes mind-set terming it a "fetish". I'm prepared to stand my ground in saying that not all areas of interest *have* to be sexualised.

Biting... I think there is a question of degree. If his partner has to draw blood for him to have an orgasm, it probably qualifies. If he's choosing who to ask out by looking at their teeth, it might also be an actual fetish. But if someone admires someone's teeth because it comes up in conversation, that's not automatically an allusion to erotic fixation on teeth despite what some people appear to think. Arg.

And I've said it before and I'll say it again: "Internet dating. The odds are good, but the goods are odd."

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evildrakey August 6 2010, 04:13:23 UTC
>Him:i hv fetish for being bitten

LMAO - Should introduce him to my GF, she likes to bite far too much...

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