Becoming what you wanted it to be

[matrixmann]

When children are small, but in that age to be sparked to question, to ask for things and to research, nowadays parents are too annoyed and too exhausted to meet the needs of those 'cause they've been totally worn out by work life and all the other duties that pull on them beside this that make out the way adults live like

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[onb2017]

Yeah, kids are not born smart, they learn for the most part from their parents and society. I read that it is crucial to teach kids all basic skills by the age 10, if I remember it right. Even the people who were raised by wolves couldn't learn basic things if they are over that age. But parents have no time because they are overworked and the society has the institutions like school and mass media that teaches what the ruling class wants you to be: do not question anything, do not protest, don't be too smart, accept consumerism etc.

[matrixmann]

Really critical for brain development are those first five years of life. Even the younger, count until the child is three.
The younger a kid is, the more highly willing and able to connect are the nerve cells in its brain. One doesn't even really believe it how quick that goes

[onb2017]

Yeah, I think you are right. I agree, the most crucial is to set the child for life before age 5. After is adding more skills and developing the character.

[matrixmann]

"Complexity" perhaps is what that is.
Saying, it's not like you couldn't correct anything by exposing kids to better circumstances in that age, but still it's noticeable that they didn't have these around them since the beginning.
Like, you'll get out somebody with a decent cognitive intelligence, but perhaps he'll remain somebody who catches up later, always gets things some time after the age kids regularly learn those things in.