I'm not sure if I'm being insensitive, but I think it would make you feel the best to unfriend him. Wow, this is such a difficult thing to face, but if being friends with him makes you uncomfortable then don't face that.
haha I did make me feel uncomfortable.... and it was so sudden and I honestly and truly didnt even want to speak with him... just because I didnt need someone like him in my life being my father or not I had never thought of him.
He deleted me though, I asked him too and he said if its what i wanted then fine. lol.
Oh, it's very difficult (and I hope I correctly understood your message). And I am very afraid to give advice in this situation (especially given the fact that my English sucks). But I'm in your place would have chose one of three options: 1) he a criminal and you hate him? I do not know if this is true, but nowadays, it seems the police can find the location of the person through his blog. That is, you can tell about him to the police. 2) you can leave everything as is and ignore it. Why did he add you? Maybe he has changed and just wants to see you at least through the Internet? 3) you can ask him what the hell he wanted in your blog. And if his answer is not going to like you - you can always delete him or create a new FB (but with a different name, so he did not find you). Excuse me if my comment nave a lot of mistakes - my English is terrible >_<
^_^ You didnt get it wrong, I just told him i didnt want to speak with him and for him to delete me from his friends list... and he did. So Now I suppose i should just bury it and forget... lol bu tI think im still in shock. hahaha
^_^ I did want to delete him... and It really did make me feel bad, I dont know why ... maybe cuz i just honestly didnt want to hurt his feelings.. haha. But I asked him to delete me after reading the message I sent him... And He did. ^_^
Hi, I haven't updated fanfics for a long time, and recently I bumped into a folder with your fics (Kidnapped, Silent & Breakable, The Cost of Life). I just found out that S&B was rewritten, but what about kidnapped & The Cost of Life? I'll read S&B new version ...
Hmmmm.. Well Lets just say I lost inspiration~ hahaha. YunJae had gotten so old for me... I mean I LOVE yunjae and will read it... but I just got tired of it. haha. Plus I never have time forrr anything! I think Kidnapped and Cost of life I had said were up for grabs... I dont know if anyone wanted them though. XD
Hey. Apparently, I can't send you a message because of your privacy settings. So I guess, I just have to post it here. ;) It's kind of personal, so please delete it once you have read it. Just for my privacy. :) And if you want, you can send me a private message to talk things out. :)
You are right. :) Our situation is indeed different. :)) I just merely wanted to share thoughts from a different perspective. :) Now that you have shared a more detailed description of what had happened, I can guarantee that you made the right choice! What you said about finding it your job to protect your Mom is exactly the same way I feel about mine! And also, saying that how can you hate someone you don't know is the exact same thoughts I have with my dad too. ;) I am glad that we were able to talk about this. Although different but in some little ways, the same, it is comforting don't you think? :) I really hope we can be friends. :)
XOXO. Dominique
P.S. I can't send a reply thru a private message so I will stick to commenting my replies to you. ;)
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He deleted me though, I asked him too and he said if its what i wanted then fine. lol.
^_^ <3 thank you hun!
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1) he a criminal and you hate him? I do not know if this is true, but nowadays, it seems the police can find the location of the person through his blog. That is, you can tell about him to the police.
2) you can leave everything as is and ignore it. Why did he add you? Maybe he has changed and just wants to see you at least through the Internet?
3) you can ask him what the hell he wanted in your blog. And if his answer is not going to like you - you can always delete him or create a new FB (but with a different name, so he did not find you).
Excuse me if my comment nave a lot of mistakes - my English is terrible >_<
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thank you darling. <3
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I just found out that S&B was rewritten, but what about kidnapped & The Cost of Life? I'll read S&B new version ...
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XOXO.
Dominique
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XOXO.
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What you said about finding it your job to protect your Mom is exactly the same way I feel about mine! And also, saying that how can you hate someone you don't know is the exact same thoughts I have with my dad too. ;) I am glad that we were able to talk about this. Although different but in some little ways, the same, it is comforting don't you think? :) I really hope we can be friends. :)
XOXO.
Dominique
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I can't send a reply thru a private message so I will stick to commenting my replies to you. ;)
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