Cuts are a wonderful thing, I like how you said it gives you a choice. Good on you for knowing your limits and boundaries. Change is rarely easy, but often rewarding. Keep those cuts comin!
i have noticed lately for myself that when i do write a really negative post that i end up deleting it. mostly because i just needed to write it out and get it out of my system and posting it serves no purpose to me anymore.
i imagine it must be hard politically for folks in your country because of the election. good for you for drawing your boundaries on that subject.
It's your journal, and you can, and should, write what you like. But I understand what you mean about keeping it positive, and know why you scroll by the rants. Some of my friends (people I know IRL) are so full of vitriol that I rarely read, much less comment.
This is why I haven't had much to say of late. Not that nothing good is going on, but I've just been expending energy toward making my place a real home. Once that's done, I promise I'll be a friend worth reading.
I was just reading your entry and um....well thanks for being honest and saying how you feel. I don't always have the physical and mental energy to remember putting warning comments though when I type an entry. If you want to de-friend me it's fine, that's your choice. Speaking of changing habits, I have been trying to post positive experiences that I have gone through for that particular day & I notice the more I do it regularly the more I notice a shift in me within even sometimes my mood or how much more or less I discuss stuff that happened that day. I'm still learning and trying though. Okay, that's my two cents. I'm not sure why I shared that with you but lol.....um,oh because of you saying how your trying to change your habits about what you type about when it's a rant or negative rant etc..
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I keep my ventage to cuts after realising even I got sick of my whining...
LJ is for positives! Its a good place to be ;)
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i have noticed lately for myself that when i do write a really negative post that i end up deleting it. mostly because i just needed to write it out and get it out of my system and posting it serves no purpose to me anymore.
i imagine it must be hard politically for folks in your country because of the election. good for you for drawing your boundaries on that subject.
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This is why I haven't had much to say of late. Not that nothing good is going on, but I've just been expending energy toward making my place a real home. Once that's done, I promise I'll be a friend worth reading.
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