input please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[malibuskater]

ok as some of you know i have been seeing someone lately and yesterday he says to me that it isn't going to work out because he is busy with school and he is not sure what he is going to do. he says that he doesnt have time for a girlfriend and he didnt want to lead me on so he just wants to be friends. he says that he is interested in me and that

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[tuesdaystarfish]

umm yea, so the first thing i think of is umm...COMPLETE POPPYCOCKLE BULLSHIT! but, to give him a chance, even though at the moment the male gender totally disgusts me (besides the gay guys cuz their really messed up girls). confront him assertively about the girl he took to the movies and ask," well, y didnt u just tell me u were taking a girl instead of telling me the halphazzard truth?" stand your ground b/c it was obvious that u guys had something going on and then he doesnt tell u the whole truth and gives u the "i dont have time for a gf right now excuse." umm wut's wrong with just dating and getting to know eachother better? there's no need to rush, so bring that up if u want to give him a chance. i dont know him or his background so it's really your decision, but i gave u my opinion, and dont let that be your only influence b/c God knows i dont have it lucky in the dating department.

[malibuskater]

hey!! thanks for your advice!! i think i am going to talk to him about it because there was something there and i think there still is....so i am going to mention the dating thing....so then its not like we are tied down to each other and have to do crap with each other all the time. thanks for your help!! i love you

[__angel_in_pink]

I was taking off my skates and I heard him talking to Karen about being busy at school or something...I tried not to listen and I wasn't really- but I did hear that.

I wouldn't worry about the other girl. You ARE pretty and funny and you can get like 20 more guys. Forget him- you can find another, better guy. But hey that's just my opinion. If he really means a lot then confront him. Just be like "I heard you went to the movies with another girl on Friday...does this have to do with you changing your mind about us?" No need to be mean or anything.

Good luck.