The Past is the Past?

[maid_kyli]

Sometimes I don't know if I should feel uncomfortable over the past, or just let it be the past.  I don't believe in judging people on their past behavior, and I know I certainly am a different person today than I was a year ago, but I don't know if that means just totally ignoring someone's past; OR just not judging them by it, but still remaining

Comments

[darkravenkiki]

About your first paragraph, forgiving but not forgetting, I totally agree. You can't hold a past mistake against someone forever, but totally forgetting about it would leave them open to do it again. If you keep what they did in mind, without holding it against them, you'll be able to protect them and yourself if they decide to do something like it again.