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[mahaliem]

I want to thank all of you who gave me virtual gifts, e-mailed me, or sent sympathy cards. I sincerely appreciate everyone's kindness

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[hils]

I'm so sorry for your loss *hugs*

[mahaliem]

Thank you, hon.

[mahaliem]

Thank you. *hugs back*

[myownghost]

One thing the hospice counsellor (who came to see me for over a year) suggested, after a while, was writing a list of all the things I had managed to get done since Gerry died. It helped me see how much progress I was making, however slowly. Even now, I do that, after 5+ years.

Thinking of you as you take these early, necessary steps. <3

[mahaliem]

I did start making lists, but more to try to keep the whole thing somewhat organized. At this point, I'm focusing more on the paperwork. In another month or two, I'll start working on his room, probably one section at a time. It might not be a bad idea to continue with the list for that, too.

[myownghost]

Oh, you know, I meant to come back and delete my comment (but I'm getting forgetful), afraid that I sounded like a know-it-all or something. You know what to do and will do it well! I tend to over-relate, maybe, because of my experience.

The paperwork is so heavy at first. Best wishes as you go through all these things.

[mahaliem]

Oh, hon. You didn't sound that way at all. In fact, any or all advice you wish to give me is more than welcome. *hugs you hard*

[bewarethesmirk]

I've been away from LJ and missed this news. While words fail to evoke the proper meaning: I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

[mahaliem]

Thank you so very much for your kind words.

[suzvoy]

*cuddles you*

[mahaliem]

*hugs back*