Yes! I totally agree with you here. Most guys lament that they're being given the shaft because they're too "nice" when it has nothing to do with how NICE they are, and everything to do with the fact that they're a complete pantywaist!
If a guy is nothing but nice, there's not enough there to work with. He has a nice job, a nice house, a nice car, says nice things...great. But that can't be all there is. He's got to be hiding something, but I'm too bored to want to find out what
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Granted, this depends on the kind of woman you're looking for. Men can be strong, stable, secure boy scouts and women will like them. I happen to know many women who love that kind of man - but they are women who are emotionally mature and are in a place in thier lives where they actually want a mature relationship.
"Sure, they may like it at first, but it gets boring quickly. It's predictable, and easy, and comfortable, and after a while it breeds resentment. You know it's true."
No. I don't know that's true. A stable, mature woman is not going to "resent" a good, dependable man in a good, healthy relationship. Bad boys may be hot and mysterious and exciting, but it doesn't last. And a woman who wants that isn't going to settle for anything else.
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that's about all they have to offer though.
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"Sure, they may like it at first, but it gets boring quickly. It's predictable, and easy, and comfortable, and after a while it breeds resentment. You know it's true."
No. I don't know that's true. A stable, mature woman is not going to "resent" a good, dependable man in a good, healthy relationship. Bad boys may be hot and mysterious and exciting, but it doesn't last. And a woman who wants that isn't going to settle for anything else.
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