I never liked the whole 'severing ties' thing. Perhaps I value friendship more than the people around me, but I think friends are something you need to hold on to, not move away from.
Good luck on your test!! And more importantly, with Paul. But you're a smart guy, I'm sure you know what you're doing.
ACK. Sorry it's taken me so long to reply. D: Crazy busy here man.
I find it very interessting that Robin phrased it like that, you need to "sever ties". Freudian slip methinks, but that's just the gossip-machine inside me. Admittedly, I did move away for college/university, but I needed to do that for my course. XD I'll tell you that story another time.
I'd give them some space, because I don't think it's the Paul situation that's bugging them, but something else. I don't mean ignore them obviously, but just let them cool off? It's obvious you both know what you're doing, and it's your decision at the end of the day. Tell them you respect that they care, but it's your life.
A "cuddle-fest" after two months is considered too fast these days? Wow. I feel well tarty now. =/
**hugs** I do hope things go well for you and Paul - it seems like things are going well.
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Good luck on your test!! And more importantly, with Paul. But you're a smart guy, I'm sure you know what you're doing.
~TamTam
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Thanks for the well-wishes! :D
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I find it very interessting that Robin phrased it like that, you need to "sever ties". Freudian slip methinks, but that's just the gossip-machine inside me. Admittedly, I did move away for college/university, but I needed to do that for my course. XD I'll tell you that story another time.
I'd give them some space, because I don't think it's the Paul situation that's bugging them, but something else. I don't mean ignore them obviously, but just let them cool off? It's obvious you both know what you're doing, and it's your decision at the end of the day. Tell them you respect that they care, but it's your life.
A "cuddle-fest" after two months is considered too fast these days? Wow. I feel well tarty now. =/
**hugs** I do hope things go well for you and Paul - it seems like things are going well.
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