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[maccheese]

I'm really tired of people whom I get close to, I open up to and then they stab me in the back. Fucking use your common sense. Don't just say something, if you don't mean it. I don't throw around words like trust and love. Accept the consequences and grow up.

You want me as a friend? You have to accept all of me, not just parts you like.

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[sixty4k]

Not to be a jerk, as I'm not sure who this is pointed at, nor do I really care, but I've been noticing lately, in people I know, when they talk about stuff that happens to them in a repeating kind of way...

If it happens repeatedly to you, you should take a good hard look at yourself, cause you are the common point in these happenings.

I'm *not* placing blame, mind you, but saying that something you are doing is resulting in repeating relationships that are not what you want. Let that rattle around, try and look back over the times this has happened and try and find the common threads, what might you be doing that invites this.

The point of doing that, is that you can change you, but you can't change anyone else (really). SO if you can pinpoint the things you do that allow this to happen, you can work on changing them and stop this happening.

get my drift?

[maccheese]

Man, if I had seen this coming, I would have steered clear. Unfortunately this was out of left field, so I never saw it coming.

Though I guess I should have seen the warning signs of the person saying, "I hate drama, and I'm never the one to cause it, it just happens around me."

I'm tired of being the one to stand up and take blame that isn't mine. This person knows they are in the wrong, but just doesn't have the decency to come out and say it.

But yeah, I understand what you're saying.