I come from an Orthodox Jewish family & community. For the first three years of our relationship, I wouldn't hold his hand on the street without checking my Jew-dar - just for example. I was terrified that someone would find out we were dating and that I'd be ostracized as a result. I could, of course, "pass" in safe spaces where I was sure no one I knew would ever go - but I recognize so much of what she describes and how awful it feels.
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*sigh*
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