I don't mind being friended, but I like to have control over who reads my very personal entries (because they tend to be, well, very personal) and what not. Thus, if you'd like to be added to that particular custom group of friends, let me know or else I won't add you to it. Feel free to share a few details about yourself, if you like (where we met, why you think my insanity is anywhere close to entertaining or amusing, etc.)
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