Good post. :) Like I've said before, I really love that you guys want to adopt. But I do think the whole "having your own child" experience is worth it. While you will love an adopted child as much as your own... the whole pregnancy/birth/genetics thing is awesome too. I may not have liked things while they were occurring, but they are pretty cool
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I liked what you had to say too, Luth. I do disagree (slightly) with one thing you mentioned. Fertility treatment. Having gone though this myself (on a very small scale, mind you) it is not an easy decision to make, nor is it something that I think all people fall into. I know you said "most" people, and you are certainly correct on this assumption. It is MOST people. However, I don't think one can truly appreciate the pain, frustration, sadness, and feeling of loss, etc that encompasses wanting a child so badly and not being able to have one. It is something I never wish on even my worst enemy. It is a terrible, awful, sinking feeling, just shy of some other ugly things I'll not get into
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