before going out of town for the weekend...

Aug 10, 2012 15:39

...one more Awesome Husband story, a little bit of me whining about my Pathetic Day today, and a preview of upcoming fic, if any of those are of interest! I shall be heading up the coast to visit family over the weekend, so, apologies if I don't answer any comments as promptly as usual!

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glisterwolf August 10 2012, 23:19:33 UTC
1. That is so amazing of him! You guys sound adorable :)

2. I am so sorry!! That sounds like one of those days where absolutely nothing goes right! :( (I can sympathize with the early-wakeup-by-pets thing -- my 70 lb husky woke me up by jumping on my chest at 8 am two days ago.) I here the current CA heatwave is supposed to end this weekend though! *sends you positive thoughts and iced tea*

3. OMG JAMES!!!!!! I'm just going to sit here and wibble at the screen for a few minutes I think... and poor Michael, especially because he was enjoying himself while James was panicking and I bet he hates himself for that even though he obviously had NO idea... *hugs boys tightly* Please fix them? *puppy dog eyes*

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luninosity August 10 2012, 23:51:22 UTC
1. He is my Favorite Person ever. :-) I think he somehow felt like me not feeling well was his fault, post-bickering, even though it so wasn't, and we'd already made up. But I can kind of see how that thought process went, especially in the engineer mindset: 'we had a fight and now my wife is hurting and I must FIX EVERYTHING.' And I'm not going to complain! :-p

2. *mm, iced tea* Yeah, it's just one of Those Days. I'm hoping that a mini-vacation will help, although I will then feel guilty about not writing things. But I will bring the books I'm supposed to be reviewing, in the hope that I can read one at some point. Also, wow, 70 pounds of husky is definitely an irrefutable wake-up call! (Is that the one in your icon? Adorable! So happy-looking!)

3. especially because he was enjoying himself while James was panicking and I bet he hates himself for that even though he obviously had NO idea... Exactly! That makes it so much worse: he feels like he should've known, even though he had no way to, and James was trying very bravely to stay ( ... )

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glisterwolf August 11 2012, 00:37:14 UTC
Yes, that is my dog in my icon and and he's VERY happy. And he just loves to SHARE his happiness! Especially early in the morning!

James shut his eyes. One last escaping tear streaked a path over wet freckles, down to that chin, and fell off, vanishing into the night. “I don’t know."

Oh... OH. Oh James! I think my heart broke along with Michael's at this!! And Michael is being so wonderful, he's completely amazing in this!

(Btw, I saw that you posted new fic, and I WILL read and comment, but since it's about overprotectiveness I'm going to wait a bit due to some events IRL that have me about ready to spit fire.)

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luninosity August 11 2012, 04:09:13 UTC
Pets're great for that, aren't they? So...exuberant! And so excited to wake you up and start the day! (Grr...) Your dog sounds like fun, though. I've always liked Huskies, but one would absolutely melt, out here!

This one is really going to be ALL the hurt and all the comfort! I kind of feel bad for Michael, though. He's so scared for James--for them both, really. It's really the first time they've had something go this drastically wrong (probably overdue, actually, considering James's past) and it's terrifying, and he doesn't know how bad it is, and he's trying so hard to be a source of strength...Fortunately, James is also pretty impressively strong, and will accept the help. (And then they have all the sex, because that fixes things.) (Actually, in this case, because that's part of the issue, it kind of does ( ... )

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shayzgirl August 11 2012, 04:49:40 UTC
You're so lucky and it's nice hearing about love, real love, when sometimes the world keeps wanting to crush things. Need that spark of hope to give us a reason to keep going sometimes.

Whining is aloud. At least I believe so. If we don't whine sometimes, then it ends up all pent up and leading to Bad ThingsTM. Or at least they sometimes do in my experience.

Oh, am intrigued by fic preview but will wait as patiently as possible for more. /sits on hands to keep from making grabby hands motions.

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luninosity August 11 2012, 06:44:45 UTC
I am, really. I know that. I do know that. (It makes some of those moments that much worse, mind you, but--oh, never mind, I'm not in that mood and I'm not going there. *eyes scars*) It is beautiful. And sometimes I look at him and just...want to smile. All the time. :-)

I hope it's allowed! At least here. I almost went back and edited it, just now, because it really is very whiny, but...I don't do that that much, right? And it really was just one of Those Days. :-/

Soon! Hopefully early next week. Monday or Tuesday, depending on how it behaves....

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shayzgirl August 14 2012, 07:34:59 UTC
I do hope to one day find someone like that. I think that's also a big reason why as much as I enjoy McFassy, I adore James and Anne-Marie. Having not been the best with friends or relationships, it's nice to have something to look up to.

I have a couple of fics that I think are currently in the realm of not behaving. Maybe if I poke them with a stick they'll cooperate. Or throw them outside for a bit. Worked with my cat who was misbehaving.

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luninosity August 14 2012, 17:25:53 UTC
James and Anne-Marie are just beautiful together. That's so rare to see, and so lovely. I'll happily write the McFassy for fun, but knowing that that real relationship exists is wonderful, too. (I always think I'm not that good at having friends, either, at least in real life! I'm dreadful at polite small talk. What do people find to talk about, that isn't geeky or academic or of practical concern?)

I find that it helps to go work on something else, for a while, and then come back! Sometimes things sort themselves out when you're not looking. Though generally not cats. Those just cause more mischief. :-p

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papercutperfect August 11 2012, 10:22:00 UTC
D'awwwwwww, Awesome Husband is so sweet! You guys are adorable. Makes me sick :p

Gah, I know the pain of losing contacts! I remember a few years ago, I was trying to get one of the little buggers out and it was hurting so damn much, and I kept pulling and pushing and trying to nudge it around my eye -- only to realise it had already fallen out onto the floor and I was poking at my friggin' eyeball. Ouch.

Jaaaaaaaaames! D8 Excuse me while I go and sob into my pillow.

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luninosity August 13 2012, 07:04:03 UTC
He really is! And we're not always that adorable, I promise. Mostly we're just geeky. :-p

Oh, yay, Fun Contact Stories! ARGH. One time I had mine fold itself in half under my eyelid! Such pain! And yet they're somehow still worth it...

...yes, sorry. *hands over tissues instead of longsuffering pillow* I promise to fix them! With cuddling! Plus there will be sex! (And then, well, considering where this one falls in that series, I'll break them MORE, and then fix them again...) But, yeah, poor James. And also Michael. Being the strong one--when you're that scared--is so hard. :-/

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avictoriangirl August 11 2012, 13:16:14 UTC
Awwww. You have such an awesome hubby. :) And it also appears that we have similar taste. I also always manage to pick the most expensive things without trying! XD

OMG James! And poor Michael! *cuddles them forever* I can't wait to read the rest!

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luninosity August 13 2012, 16:49:00 UTC
He really is! I am wonderfully lucky. :D :D And, the expensive things are often just the best option, right? Not our fault! :-p

Probably tomorrow, I think, for fic? I am back at home, but...catching up on ALL THE THINGS, today. Poor James, yes, though. He needs lots of hugs. And so does terrified Michael, actually! *cuddles them and you* *also promises of porn, because that's how we make things better*

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telperion_15 August 11 2012, 15:04:35 UTC
Well, I think you've definitely picked a keeper there, hon! :D (All other men are subconsciously hating him now though, because he's making them look bad!)

And whining is totally justified when you have one of those days, when the world has clearly decided to just make everything as irritating as possible. Those days are almst worse sometimes than when something goes horrifically, drastically wrong, because it's just a bunch of little things that shouldn't really be that much of a problem, but somehow are...

Also, this fic extract is giving me ALL THE FEELINGS. They've never been this fragile, and it's awful...

But enjoy your weekend anyway, and I hope it's cooler where you're going! :)

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luninosity August 13 2012, 17:11:12 UTC
He is my favorite! That's why I married him! Or we married each other, I suppose. With an Elvish blessing and medieval love poetry. (I think it's partly the engineer mindset; I suspect that thought process went something like: 'we had a fight! and now my wife doesn't feel good! [not that he had anything to do with that!] and I must make things right!' I am not complaining about this!) (He got lots of cuddling, definitely, though!)

Those days are almst worse sometimes than when something goes horrifically, drastically wrong, because it's just a bunch of little things that shouldn't really be that much of a problem, but somehow are...

Exactly! You totally understand! :-p None of the things were calamitous or anything, just...so many little annoying incidents. And then you feel even worse about being irritated, because individually they're not big things, but... *sigh* The friend who moved away was one of my few fandom-y real-life friends, too. Not that we don't have other friends around, but they will not understand the excitement or ( ... )

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telperion_15 August 13 2012, 20:41:52 UTC
(I think it's partly the engineer mindset; I suspect that thought process went something like: 'we had a fight! and now my wife doesn't feel good! [not that he had anything to do with that!] and I must make things right!' I am not complaining about this!)

To be honest, that sounds like a pretty good mindset for him to have, from your point of view! :)

Exactly! You totally understand! :-p None of the things were calamitous or anything, just...so many little annoying incidents. And then you feel even worse about being irritated, because individually they're not big things, but... *sigh*

It just makes you feel like the Irritating Thing Gnomes are out to get you, and you get the point where you're just going "Can't one tiny thing just go RIGHT today????" (Am not having quite that many irritations at the moment, but there are a couple of things that my life would be significantly less annoying without right now!).

Not that we don't have other friends around, but they will not understand the excitement or the vocabulary in the same way ( ... )

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luninosity August 13 2012, 21:48:31 UTC
Partly why he's an Awesome Husband! The tendency to get excited about sonic screwdrivers and Tony Stark's armor doesn't hurt, either. *grin*

Those Irritating Thing Gnomes sometimes just have it out for us, I imagine. No motive other than sheer malignancy; but they all work together, and coordinate, so they can strike on the same day. Hopefully yours go back to behaving themselves, soon, though!

That does sound like a good week! I think that geeking out, unabashedly, from time to time, is probably good for the soul. (Trying to entice one of my other friends into XMFC fandom...she's a total SF/fantasy nerd, and she actually already likes James [she's the one who talked me into watching The Last Station, and I'm so very glad] but she's never really gotten into fandom properly...but I am persistent...)

I politely move that the beginning of the Continuation couldn't be that much worse! Could it? *bites nails*Well...I suppose, more accurately: we will learn one or two things to make us hate That Person more? So it's even worse when James ( ... )

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