"Be glad you're not married. Be glad you don't have a boyfriend. Men are nothing but lying cheating sex freaks."~ my friend who just found reeeeeeeeally strong evidence that her husband's cheating on her
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Just be there. And remind her regularly how awesome a person she is without being too obvious about it. Because at some point in time, she's likely going to think it's her fault.
Aaaaand give her ways to distract herself. Talking about other things other than what's going on will probably help.
Poor friend :(
(And poor you. ♥ Your situation sucks, too, if it's making you confused and lonely and emo.)
Often we think "why didn't I see this coming?". Of course we didn't see this coming. You don't go into a marriage expecting it to fall apart... otherwise why enter into it at all? Unless your name is Jeremy.
Incriminating emails and even more incriminating photos, which the dumbass was dumb enough to have in an account she has access to (they've had it for years and she never uses it, so I guess he thought it was safe.) And in examining one of the email addresses, we determined that he had forwarded the pictures to a gmail account of his that she had no knowledge of. Why he didn't purge the sent emails from that "joint" account is beyond me. Wonder what's in that gmail account!
They've been having a lot of problems lately, but this completely shocked her.
I don't think there's any way to make her feel better, not yet, at least. I guess you just gotta be there for her and give her lots of hugs. Hugs are always good.
Ah fuck... that is SO shitty. Cheating is one of those things that I have absolutely no tolerance for. I'm of the mind that if you really want to fuck around so badly, then go fuck around... AFTER YOU'VE BROKEN UP. Seriously, that is SUCH an unforgivable breach of trust. :(
AFTER. Yes. Problem is, he seems to want to work out their other issues AND fool around. It don't work that way, homeboy!
It really is shitty... but I've been on both sides of it. So I like to think a cheater can be redeemed. (I was also wracked with guilt and had to confess shortly after, whereas THIS guy simply got caught) *shudder* I'm glad all that's behind me now. I like to think I would handle things better, hypothetically, if I were ever in a relationship again.
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Aaaaand give her ways to distract herself. Talking about other things other than what's going on will probably help.
Poor friend :(
(And poor you. ♥ Your situation sucks, too, if it's making you confused and lonely and emo.)
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Like one should expect a spouse to cheat.
Thanks ♥
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Jeremy fails!
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IA with the above comment.
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They've been having a lot of problems lately, but this completely shocked her.
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I can be better about using my phone, at least. Heh.
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She came over around 10pm and I was all worked up even after she left.
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I don't think there's any way to make her feel better, not yet, at least. I guess you just gotta be there for her and give her lots of hugs. Hugs are always good.
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obviously i know what i'm on about, for once! :o
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It really is shitty... but I've been on both sides of it. So I like to think a cheater can be redeemed. (I was also wracked with guilt and had to confess shortly after, whereas THIS guy simply got caught) *shudder* I'm glad all that's behind me now. I like to think I would handle things better, hypothetically, if I were ever in a relationship again.
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