Comments | lulu_bear66: Why Can't People Let Me Be!

lulu_bear66

Why Can't People Let Me Be!

Jan 27, 2009 18:11

Hi Peeps! Why is it that I'm getting help, suport, no hassle from all my cyber friends, yet my family, and other people who really don't have a right at all to have any say in how I live, keep wanting to tell me how to live my life ( Read more... )

family, get a life, j, migraine, sleeping on the sofa, lecture, charles

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gypsy_girl84 January 27 2009, 22:32:12 UTC

Aww hugs to you Lulu, I cannot stand people who think they can come in and tell people how to live their lives. Could you just tell them to leave you be?

*hugs* and thoughts are with you.

Jess.

chiming_magic January 27 2009, 22:41:50 UTC

hugs, agree with jess. Jay definitely doesn't have a right any more. hugs from this way you're still in thought.

Thanks lulu_bear66 January 27 2009, 22:47:28 UTC

Thanks so much, Jess. Big hugs.

It's your life nanna_kat January 27 2009, 23:20:14 UTC

Nobody has the right to say how you shall live your life! Only you know how you're feeling, only you know exactly what you've been through, so you are the only one to say how you shall live your life! If your sleeping habits are unusual -- So what? So are mine! If not even more irregular!

Oh no, it's your life, and your choice!

Re: It's your life fleurette67 January 28 2009, 11:30:19 UTC

Hi Lulu! I totally agree with all the comments above, especially Helena's: the only difference between her and me is that I have regular sleep patterns set to the French tiime zone! But I've always hated being told how to live my life, what to eat and what to avoid, etc, so no way would I do that to other people. Sure, I sometimes wish you were happier, that your sleep patterns weren't set to Louisiana time, and so on, but there's no way I'd force you to change things, or lecture you about your lifestyle. I don't blame you for getting stressed when J switched to "lecture mode": now you've left him, he shouldn't boss you about like that! You've needed time to get over a very bad situation, and maybe you're not 100 % over it yet, but you're already improving, that's the important thing. I don't blame you in the least for relying on your long-distance friends for company when you're at home: I do that myself a lot, even though, unlike you, I don't live alone and I have outside activities. If you ever feel the urge to come and visit me in ( ... )