Absence

[lucifein]

Some of you may have noticed that I haven't posted as often as I normally do, over the last three days. It's alright. It's nothing you've said. It's just that with Frank's passing, I was struck harder than I thought I would be. Enough sadness to leave me unable to celebrate Fallon's birthday with her on monday, which would be the day I returned

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[the_devilsbitch]

sad for your loss sweetie ;o(
*hugs* x

[lucifein]

Thanks babe. Despite knowing it was on it's way, it still smarts. x

[the_devilsbitch]

if anything, i think its probably harder when knowing its on its way.

at least they are at peace now & without pain wherever they are ;o) x

i recently lost my best friend, and always think of her and smile remembering all the really good times we shared, i try to remember and be thankfull for all the good things she brought me and all the things ive gained in myself through knowing her, rather than allow myself to think of my loss.
its still very hard though, but at least dwelling on the positive of a very negative thing helps in a way to deal with it.
im not trying to in any way lecture,or say how you should feel. am just saying its been my way of coping, and i hope that even in some small way it helps.

i like to think of her leaving of this life not as goodbye, but see you again.
x

[chied]

Don't you worry about me love. I too am very sorry for your loss. Give me a call when you feel better or if you need some company.

[lucifein]

What did you do for your birthday? Have you seen your LJ birthday card?

I always love your company, so I might try to bother you this week. I'm watching the fuel til payday, as Rich has broken his bicycle and I am giving him lifts to and fro work at the mo. I saw a statue of a man made completely out of random buttons in Ripley's Believe It Or Not Odditorium and immediatly started plotting how to rob that exhibit. Sarah wouldn't let me though! >:P