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lsutiger_08

Why?

Jun 08, 2005 04:37

Why are guy suck fucking idiots sometimes? Please if you can help me in any way, do. I'd appreciate anything. Alright, so a friend I was crushing on kissed me one night right... But now I find out that he's had a girlfriend for a few months! He says he loves her and she loves him but where was his love when he kissed me? Something's not right with ( Read more... )

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mack_the_knife6 June 8 2005, 04:46:09 UTC

if you really wanna know, he was prob. seeing if he would feel anything with another girl, if he kissed you would he like it. He was testing his love and obviously he still wants to be with the girl he "loves."

Let it go, if you didn't make out, if it was just a simple kiss, it was probablly nothing...a kiss is such a miniscule show of affection nowadays that its given away like cake.

c3p0wnz June 8 2005, 05:35:53 UTC

perhaps at that time he wasn't in love with her?

Boys are all assholes.

When I arrive at that solution (I think it at least once a day) I'm always like, "Damn, wouldn't it have been marvelous to have turned out to be a lesbian?"

Read this and thought you might be able to relate too: lipglossgecko June 8 2005, 11:47:38 UTC

This is my tribute to the nice girls. To the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is an homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time ( ... )

Re: Read this and thought you might be able to relate too: lipglossgecko June 8 2005, 11:48:10 UTC

This one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across the room him leaning a little too close, or standing a little too near, or talking a little too ( ... )

Re: Read this and thought you might be able to relate too: lipglossgecko June 8 2005, 11:48:45 UTC

This is for the "I really like you, so let's still be friends" comment after you read more into a situation than he ever intended; this is for never realizing that when you choose friends, you seldom choose those which make you cry yourself to sleep. This is for the hugs you've received from your female friends, for the nights they've reassured you that you are beautiful and intelligent and amazing and loyal and truly worthy of a great guy; this is for the despair you all felt as you sat in the aftermath of your tears, knowing that that night the only companionship you'd have was with a pillow and your teddy bear. This is for the girls who have been used and abused, who have endured what he was giving because at least he was giving something; this is for the stupidity of the nights we've believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing we'd have ever wanted. This is for the girls who have been satisified with too little and who have learned never to expect anything more: for the girls who don't think ( ... )

Re: Read this and thought you might be able to relate too: lipglossgecko June 8 2005, 11:49:06 UTC

(last post, I promise)

Maybe nice guys finish last, but in the race they're running they're chasing after the whores and the sluts and the easy-targets... the nice girls are waiting at the finish line with water and towels and a congradulatory hug (and yes, if she's a nice girl and she likes you, the sweatiness probably won't matter), hoping against hope that maybe you'll realize that they're the ones that you want at the end of that silly race.

So maybe it won't last forever. Maybe some of those guys in that race will turn in their running shoes and make their way to the concession stand where we're waiting; however, until that happens, we still have each other, that silly race to watch, and all the chocolate we can eat (because what's a concession stand at a race without some chocolate?)