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Apr 06, 2009 08:46

Ok for those of you wanting to know, i did miscarry on thursday. Right after i posted i rushed to my doctor because i was just bleeding WAY too much for my liking. They had to do a D&C that evening. It sucks but i am ok.  I will get through this. I will try again. My goal is to lose 60lbs and be healthy so i dont have to have another high risk ( Read more... )

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mrsbr00kster April 6 2009, 16:20:43 UTC
im so sorry,

=(

super big hugs!

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loviegirl75 April 6 2009, 18:14:55 UTC
Thank you.

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disfreak318 April 6 2009, 18:23:40 UTC
Awwww *big hugs* I always figure that with most miscarriages there is a very good reason for it happening (unless it is caused of course out of unnatural circumstances). They are sad though :( Hey at least your body understands the concept of getting preggers though....yey!! Anyway good luck trying for another one...wink, wink ;)

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loviegirl75 April 6 2009, 18:53:42 UTC
Thank you and i have pretty much come to the conclusion that it did happen for a reason. 1 i am not healthy, 2 Jerry is and hasnt been working for a while now, 3 we arent ready as we have a 1 yr old that needs attention. I just keep telling myself that.

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widgetchick April 6 2009, 18:50:27 UTC
I had no idea you were even pregnant since I fail at LJ lately.

I'm so sorry. :( My heart hurts for you, completely.

Things like this just shouldn't happen. But, as Jaime said, they happen for a reason. No matter how we try to make sense of it though, it still hurts.

But you have the right outlook on things. Life does go on. As long as you take your time that you need to get over it... I know, for me, I'll never get COMPLETELY over it, but I've healed.

And that's a good goal to have - become healthy and try again. I'm in the process of doing that. Even though my goal was 80lbs and then try again. :) I'm almost there.

(*(*hugs*)*)

I can't say I know what YOU'RE going through since each individual goes through things differently, but I'm sorry. I'm here if you need to shout out. :)

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loviegirl75 April 6 2009, 19:00:31 UTC
You dont fail at LJ, you just havent had the time. I know you have been dealing with the same thing for a while now and yes the mourning process is long. But i think that since i have been through this once before i am looking at it differently this time. I can either sit here and ask myself everyday why this happened or what could i have done to prevent it and i still cant change the fact that it just didnt happen this time around. I think that maybe it just wasnt the right time for this to happen :( It hurts, it really does. In such a short time i got excited about it.

Thank you for the support and the same goes for you, if you ever need to talk, i am here for you too.

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betterlife08 April 8 2009, 00:23:31 UTC
I am really so sorry. I just dont know what to tell you. You will be in my thoughts!

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loviegirl75 April 8 2009, 15:40:25 UTC
Thank you. I will be ok, i am not giving up yet.

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