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Compliments are emotionally damaging
Jun 30, 2008 08:30
Random conversation with a girl at work led to her saying this:
"Naomi, I can't imagine you ever being a bitch."
Now I know that this is a compliment and meant to be a good thing but, why the hell not?
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kittie_la_rue
June 30 2008, 11:41:48 UTC
She obviously doesn't know you well enough :p
*hugs* love the nim!
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ckp_arlette
July 2 2008, 13:13:26 UTC
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NO SELF INSULTING THOUGTS! BAD BAD NIMMY!
She was complimenting you you twit! lol, and besides the question you should be asking is, why don't i deserve to be complimented.
The answer to which is, that you do! your an amasing friend and even thou you don't always tell us what we want to hear, it's what we need to hear.
so just remeber that you are amasing. x
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*hugs* love the nim!
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NO SELF INSULTING THOUGTS! BAD BAD NIMMY!
She was complimenting you you twit! lol, and besides the question you should be asking is, why don't i deserve to be complimented.
The answer to which is, that you do! your an amasing friend and even thou you don't always tell us what we want to hear, it's what we need to hear.
so just remeber that you are amasing. x
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