"what do u want to be labled as?"

[loshy]

"But homophobia and lesbophobia are as different from each other as men are from women. And like men and women, they are not interchangeable. Homophobia means fear of homsexuality or fear of one's own homosexual desire. Lesbophobia means fear of women-centered being- that is, women without men

Comments

[klevin]

i apologize for what i said a long time ago to you on the internet. it wasnt meant to come out that way, and it shouldnt have...

[loshy]

then what was it meant to come out as? its hard to imagine what someone doesnt think of u.

[klevin]

it was meant to come out as saying, dont be so sure of how you feel right now and dont write it in stone, as you are still growing and maturing. im not saying you arent, i was just saying dont say for better or for worse i am due to the fact that peoples bodies do some crazy shit while they are going through this phase we call adolescence. not to say that you dont know how you feel or anything, or that i do...rather that you shouldnt put ALL too much emphasis on how you feel right now cause for all you know, in a year it could be backwards. thats all i was trying to say, okay?

[loshy]

okay? god kevin thats such shit. if i told u the opposite of what i did, u'd have no doubt in my decision.u wouldnt think twice about it. that decision that happens to be the majority, normality. just fuckin say i shouldnt say what i do cause its not normal and chances are this is some fuckin phase eh. u cant admit that theres just as good a chance that u could feel the same way i do as i could to u. and even if u say so, i dont think u actualy believe it. im saying all this cause i want to u know that i think what ur saying is bull shit because ur being a total hypocrit saying that i should be open cause im young while i know ur thinking that its only a one whay maybe. i know u dont think i should make this decision cause its not the norm. im not saying ur prejudice, im saying ur being a hypocrit. its not even a decision, its not a choice, its a fact. if all u have to say is be open and dont make any final decisions, save it. im sick of hearing it.