Questions on sexuality, your bisexual "subpreference"

[lordalfredhenry]

Please answer these only if you are perfectly comfortable discussing with some degree of maturity/seriousness. Please don't read further if this topic would disturb you either. Freaky and candid adults welcome

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[lordalfredhenry]

I should probably start: Fellatio, coitus...

[lordalfredhenry]

I'd probably add breast play here but it wasn't an option. For me it's straightforward....I like warm and comparatively slick sex. Although...if she does not enjoy the former, I'd skip to the latter. That said, my main senses are attracted to male forms and the plumbing aspect seems different. Also, I lean "top"...but do not have any dislike for being a "bottom". All in all, I'm more oral as it is. Personally, anal sex for me is about as much a part of my sexuality as it would be for straights....I do however tend to engage in that more when it is requested of me.

[bukephalus]

Ditto.

[lordalfredhenry]

Do you happen to know any straight men's ideas on this or any that could take this? I have a good representation now of every group but them.

[kibbles]

Oral, because I like getting and probably would like giving, and hands/toys because I NEED PENETRATION.

If I'm a bit antsy right now, it's because it's been a while since Dan's been home...so I'm crawling the walls.

As someone who is a bit into BDSM, though, I wonder if I would want to top or bottom. I don't know if I would play like that with a woman. Alone, at least. I have fantasies related to that but that really doesn't matter does it...

[jp5040]

Could I just pick all of the above?
Sexually there is very little I would not try - and since I did all those things I think I make informed judgment that I have no specified preference or sexuality other than that at this time men seem to be most emotionally satisfying (not sure why).

[lordalfredhenry]

Sure, it's possible to like them all equally...might be rare but perhaps that's the true gist of pansexuality? I sometimes feel this way too...perhaps most of all when I'm around a certain crowd or in a mood. I do admit, sometimes, these preferences can change too so I guess this might refer most to current state.... but even then, it's possible all can be equal and may even all the time.

[mountdfw]

I'm waaay up there on the Kinsey Scale, but for some reason I have always found the idea of performing cunnilingus to be incredibly erotic.

With men, I tend to be about 70/30% bottom/top, and about 70/30% oral/anal. I enjoy all of it, but honestly, giving a guy a blowjob is my favorite thing, so I guess it's not THAT surprising that I would be attracted to the idea of going down on a member of the opposite sex.

What is maybe a little weird is, with some men, I am EMPHATICALLY interested in topping them, but I have zero interest in penetrative intercourse with a female.

[lordalfredhenry]

interesting. I'm toppish but extremely oral too. My bottom partner is not so oral....hence interesting. The bottom/top spectrum can vary a bit too though. He's probably more exclusively bottom....and top more as a favor to this versatile top. I honestly like exploring the range.

[lordalfredhenry]

...with each individual.

[albinowolf]

I'm a straight Female so...

Oral [both, though I don't know if I'd enjoy giving, it would only be fair if she did it on me], and toys/hands because I love having something inside me.