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lookingsolost

Love love love

Apr 25, 2006 11:56

I don't think I'll ever be able to be in a relationship again. Every time it gets close to something happening I just get terrified and freak out. My dad tells me that I should be dating around; its not time to have a girlfriend. Easy for him to say, the girls I'm into aren't the ones who date around like that. I know I am probably over thinking ( Read more... )

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joanna anonymous April 25 2006, 23:20:54 UTC

steven, although i DO think it's good advice to date around....it all depends on YOU. i would say, generally, dating around is good: it's fun and the probability of you finding a potential relationship goes up. But, like you said...the girls you're into arent the ones who date around like that...so i would say follow what you believe in and follow your desires. You want a quality girl...not just a bunch of okay-ish girls? But then, it's difficult to find that. I guess you just have to give it time. And not CONCENTRATE on just finding a girlfriend. If it will happen, it will happen naturally.

:) can't wait to see you up here at Cal!!!! :)

<3, joanna

xrockangelx April 26 2006, 00:09:28 UTC

You've just gotta listen to yourself and do whatever feels right. I don't think you have to worry about it much. You're a cool guy, and whether you find what you're looking for in love sooner or later, it'll all be okay. Things usually are, if you listen to yourself. :)

www.therfs.com -This is a cool place, if you want somewhere to talk/hang out and give/get advice. People are really nice and helpful, and we all have fun there. You'll probably see me around if you go.

sore_de_ii_no April 26 2006, 00:10:57 UTC

Well, at least you were in a relationship to begin with.

By the way, Lupin?

lookingsolost April 26 2006, 03:08:19 UTC

gah I'm gonna be gone the next two weekends..how's your week looking like??

sore_de_ii_no April 26 2006, 04:41:12 UTC

Does weekend include Fridays?

Thursday night might be okay...O_o

sore_de_ii_no April 26 2006, 00:11:29 UTC

Also, don't listen to your dad. If you want to have a serious relationship, go for it.

yourekindasexie April 26 2006, 06:17:32 UTC

weeeelllll.... college is a good time and place to experiment around, not to say you should be a big fat whore and give it out to anything that walks...

and right now i'm sure you know what you like and don't like but you do find out what you DEFINITELY like and what you DEFINITELY don't like when you interact with different people. and then you just become sad because when you DO know exactly what you want you know you won't find it for a very long time.... so either way you can't win. but at least you get to have fun until you do find that special someone. (oh god, shoot me. that sounded sooooo gay)