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lil_shepherd September 5 2013, 20:29:10 UTC
The person who is named as the father on the birth certificate is the father.

If no one is named on the birth certificate, the government may try to ascertain who is the father because there is law that insists that the father supports the child financially. (Google 'Child Support Agency' on that.)

The courts can decide whether the father has access to the child but, whether he does or not, he is still liable to support said child.

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writergirlfr September 5 2013, 20:36:40 UTC
Okay, so even if he left (the way I planned it, he left money to his future ex-wife before leaving for the baby) if he is on the birth certificate, it's okay? Does he supposed to sign something or not? thank for your help anyway!

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lil_shepherd September 5 2013, 21:13:08 UTC
It doesn't matter what money he left. The CSA assesses how much money the father has to pay in support. If what he left isn't adequate they will chase him for it.

He doesn't have to sign anything for him to be regarded as the father. If he isn't, he can dispute it.

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reapermum September 5 2013, 20:35:41 UTC
You would have more trouble if you wanted him not to have responsibility. He will have been legally required to contribute to the costs of bringing her up until she is 18, unless her mother remarried and her stepfather took responsibility.

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kate_nepveu September 5 2013, 20:38:16 UTC
You say "there is no possible doubt about paternity," which I assume means he is the genetic parent. Under these circumstances, he is legally her parent according to the book chapter you found.

Also, while I am not a lawyer in England, in the U.S. you have to do way, way more than just divorce the other parent in order to no longer legally be a parent. If that were the case, if you got divorced, you'd never have to support your genetic offspring who were conceived with your legal spouse and with your consent, which would obviously be Bad. I can't imagine that England would be different.

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lil_shepherd September 5 2013, 21:21:05 UTC
England isn't - in fact, it's tougher. If you are the father you have to support the child whether or not you were married to the mother.

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kate_nepveu September 5 2013, 21:56:44 UTC
Oh sure, not being married doesn't give you a pass on child support in the US either, I was just trying to respond to the specific situation in the post. Sorry to give the wrong impression!

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sushidog September 5 2013, 20:50:25 UTC
If he's named as the father on the birth certificate _and_ he was legally married to the mother at the time of the birth, then it would take a fairly prolonged and difficult court case to _stop_ him being legally recognised as the father. So yes, the dad is still the dad.

(I'm not sure there are any laws in the UK insisting that a live kidney donor must be related though; if they're willing, able, and compatible, I don't think they'd be refused.)

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lil_shepherd September 5 2013, 21:14:18 UTC
There is nothing that says a live kidney donor must be related, only that they be compatible.

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major_clanger September 5 2013, 22:04:23 UTC
Yes, although as I understand it the approval process for altruistic donors is rather more complex than for directed donors (i.e. relations or those with a close attachment).

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lil_shepherd September 6 2013, 04:14:01 UTC
I presume that is to stop the selling of organs.

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aella_irene September 5 2013, 21:20:35 UTC
My grandparents got divorced shortly after my father was born on the grounds that she'd just had a baby, and hadn't seen her husband in eighteen months. Legally, her husband is still my grandfather.

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