i think you guys should sit down with them and talk. just get it all out in the open...as scary as it might be you'll feel better once it's all out. it doesn't have to be an argument but it's YOUR house and if you guys have something to say then don't be afraid to say it. just be like we love you guys but ______ has to change or you have ______ days to find somewhere else to live or whatever it is.
yeah i know....that's what matthew was saying to me he was like look we need to say how we feel or nothing will ever change. We just need to say " its not working out, you need to find a job and start saving $ so you can get your own place." I know its going to be hard but its something that NEEDS to be done. Like you said its OUR house!
absolutely! i mean im sure you'd want to talk if it were matt's parents staying with you right? it's just not fair for you guys as a couple. not on your relationship, or indivually emotionally, and financially. you've done all you can and now something needs to change. you both are adults now so dont be scared or intimidated to say whatever you like to them. no matter what they will love you and it will work out but right now you just have to put your foot down.
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