Comments | lilmizbubblegum: a moany, depressed post

lilmizbubblegum

a moany, depressed post

Sep 19, 2010 14:52

I'm feeling a bit depessed today. For a while now i've felt like this as i seem to be the last of my friends to find happiness. I'm 30 years old and have nothing. I can't work due to health reasons, I have friends but none that can be bothered to spend time with me it seems, though on the other hand they have lives, i don't. I am the last of my ( Read more... )

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socarefully September 19 2010, 21:01:02 UTC

I don't think there is anything wrong with you....you just have not found the correct guy yet.

I would suggest sended guys you like messages on okcupid.

When it's meant to happen you will find someone for you.

lilmizbubblegum September 20 2010, 15:48:57 UTC

i have join okcupid, thanks for the suggestion x

blue_eye September 20 2010, 06:04:48 UTC

Maybe you try too hard?

What are you interested in? There might be clubs, activities, and social groups where you can meet people with whom you share interests.

lilmizbubblegum September 20 2010, 15:48:24 UTC

I have tried looking for clubs etc to join in my area, there is nothing at all. It really is the back of beyond! Thanks for suggesting it though :o)

chanharrison September 20 2010, 07:47:25 UTC

Hugs!!!!

lilmizbubblegum September 20 2010, 15:47:22 UTC

hugs back :o)

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lilmizbubblegum September 20 2010, 15:46:40 UTC

i don't get chances to go out really. As you read below my best friend is ill like me alot of the time and others live in different places so i am stuck indoors with my parents literally 24/7.

I have other sites like FB, and have added a few friend sites these past few days. I have added okcupid, speeddate, i have done all this before with no luck if i am honest.

30 feels old when u see 20 year olds getting married and having kids! lol

mysteryfem September 20 2010, 13:38:16 UTC

I am the same as you, health stuff, no kids and always wanted them etc etc and it hurts a bit to read that you say you have no friends that can be bothered to spend time with you ( ... )

lilmizbubblegum September 20 2010, 15:40:39 UTC

To be honest when writing this i didn't include you in the friends that can't be bothered Lise. I know you're ill like me most of the time so in that way you weren't included if you get what i mean. I didn't think you would read it as you were included, sorry.

I have more money now so if asked again to go out for coffee i am sure it would happen. I can't do shopping, it hurts me too much to walk around, remember Birmingham when i was a mile behind you trying to keep up and grit my teeth through the pain. I'd love it to be like the old days whene we'd be over each others house all the time. I guess that time will never come back though.

South africa, still haven't heard about the move, beginning to think it won't happen and to be honest given up with it ever happening.

You are my best friend, we just don't see each other as much as we used to, and sometimes i feel disconnected, but thats not your fault its just how i feel. WE must meet up more often and try to do things. These 4 walls are driving me mad!

xx