I don't know if its my place to comment but I also have always had a strange relationship with my dad, we actually haven't spoken for nearly 10 years not for lack of trying I might add. If he came up to me tomorrow even after everything we've gone through I would have to say I am more than willing to try even if it brings more heartbreak. I think sometimes we expect our parents to be invincible and infallible, we want them to be our strength and ultimately want them to be who we look up to,we want them to guild, support and keep us sane. It's only in recent years I have come to accept that my dad is human to and is just a susceptible to fears, wants, and mistakes as I am. I guess what i'm trying to say is if you feel it's worth another try after all we only get one chance at life.....then go for it at least you wont have the regret of not...................BTW awesome fic and hope it works out for you both x
Thanks for your answer! Yeah, I thought my expectations and hopes are way too high. And I'm trying my best to set them lower. It's just not that easy sometimes. Especially if he says he'll do this or that and you think, great, he'll really do that, but then, he forgets. That's what hurts the most. The simple "I forgot" answer. I think he has much to do, but my Mom, too, and she can do some things for met, too. And then I think, I shouldn't compare them. But sometimes I do. Well, it's not an easy subject. At the moment I am in contact with him. But he forgets to call me and I'm calling him then and then he hasn't got time becuase his fiancée is there or wants to talk or something like that.
Thanks! I'm glad you like it! Thank you... I hope for you, too? ;)
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Yeah, I thought my expectations and hopes are way too high. And I'm trying my best to set them lower. It's just not that easy sometimes. Especially if he says he'll do this or that and you think, great, he'll really do that, but then, he forgets. That's what hurts the most. The simple "I forgot" answer. I think he has much to do, but my Mom, too, and she can do some things for met, too. And then I think, I shouldn't compare them. But sometimes I do.
Well, it's not an easy subject. At the moment I am in contact with him. But he forgets to call me and I'm calling him then and then he hasn't got time becuase his fiancée is there or wants to talk or something like that.
Thanks! I'm glad you like it!
Thank you... I hope for you, too? ;)
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