It's amazing how much past experiences can colour one's opinions of such simple things as tournures de phrase like this one. Suffice to say that though I am healing, I do not think I would react well were someone to say such a thing to me in the near future.
Tone of voice would have a large impact on my reaction, I think. As would specific phrasing. Something like "you're earning your breakfast" would be less upsetting than "come earn your breakfast". Whereas I'm sure that, in the past, I would have taken the latter as a challenge, I'd likely misinterpret it as a demand now. :/
Sounds to me like something appropriate to say during but not before the act....
Don't go quoting me no that... I have also been known to wondering if the pope had died yet during ( he did the afternoon after! ) so I am not a reference on appropriate things to say during.
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I do kind of think (as mentioned below), this playfully uttered "during" might be ok with me right now.
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Something like "you're earning your breakfast" would be less upsetting than "come earn your breakfast". Whereas I'm sure that, in the past, I would have taken the latter as a challenge, I'd likely misinterpret it as a demand now. :/
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Context is Key.
Whereas I'm sure that, in the past, I would have taken the latter as a challenge, I'd likely misinterpret it as a demand now.
Exactly.
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Don't go quoting me no that... I have also been known to wondering if the pope had died yet during ( he did the afternoon after! ) so I am not a reference on appropriate things to say during.
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Which somehow seems more playful.
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