from A to Z - After

[lifeofmendel]

Of the various potential and actual romantic relationships i've had in my life (which total eight), i feel fortunate to be very close friends with five of them.

i think that what it comes down to is that after that period of mourning and loss and potential triggers for "the way things used to be" (however long that period is which varies from

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[lacoste38]

I like this blogging idea. What will B... be?!

Anyway. Dan and I have actually talked about this recently. We each have one former relationship where the person we ended things with will not talk to us, a person or two we've simply fallen out of touch with, and then for the most part we're still chummy with everyone else. I like it that way. If someone was that important to you at some point in your life, I'm glad that when I reflect on what we had I can be happy, and be happy for them and whatever it is they're doing. When things go sour, it's a lot more difficult. Since Dan and I have been together 3.5 years, I don't have any "recent" breakups, but if I did that may change things, as usually that period is... turbulent. ;)

[lifeofmendel]

B is going to be about a video game named Bastion because it's one of the better video games i've played in years.

i know i still owe you an email. will get to you soon, promise. :)

[lifeofmendel]

winning in that i can still have meaningful relationships with those that i care about and still care about me.