Where the fuck does he get off making comments like that when you stood by him when a lot of women would have cut and run.
So you don't cook, so what you take care of his son, yourself and you have tried to do the right thing by him. Comments in some ways are more hurtful than physical abuse cause they just eat at you constantly.
Next time he comments on your lack of cooking hit him with a fry pan maybe it will knock some sense into him.
Also, does he not realise that he is negatively affecting his son by talking like that to you, he needs to get off his pedestal made of shit and realise that he is an adult that is responsible for the way his life has turned out and stop taking it out on you.
Have you thought about couples counseling? Or maybe even just sitting down to talk when things are good just to make it clear you are going a bit batty? Or maybe even counseling just for yourself?
Or if its got this bad... maybe its time to think about if the bad times out weigh the good and see where to go from there.
Hi darlin! Sorry it has taken me awhile to respond to your reply. I vent then forget to come back and check to see if I have comments!
We tried couples counseling back in the summer of 2006. He went in with a chip on his shoulder and a prepared speech. In his mind he is right and I am wrong, and I just need to get over it. And I will admit to not being perfect, but I am not that damn off all the time! Stopped going to counseling because I felt it was just a waste of time and money. Nothing was going to change. On either end. I am just stubborn enough to not budge when he doesn;t know when to quit.
I really should be in counseling (again) for just me, but I cannot find anyone that is covered by our insurance. And unfortunately I do not have the cash for it. So I just take it one day at a time. More days than not I need to leave, but at this point I don't have the options I need to do that.
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I totally agree with you on the princess comments!!! He needs to JUST STFU!!
hope you enjoyed your margarita! It sounded YUMMY!!
miss u!!
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Where the fuck does he get off making comments like that when you stood by him when a lot of women would have cut and run.
So you don't cook, so what you take care of his son, yourself and you have tried to do the right thing by him. Comments in some ways are more hurtful than physical abuse cause they just eat at you constantly.
Next time he comments on your lack of cooking hit him with a fry pan maybe it will knock some sense into him.
Also, does he not realise that he is negatively affecting his son by talking like that to you, he needs to get off his pedestal made of shit and realise that he is an adult that is responsible for the way his life has turned out and stop taking it out on you.
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Love you!
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Have you thought about couples counseling? Or maybe even just sitting down to talk when things are good just to make it clear you are going a bit batty? Or maybe even counseling just for yourself?
Or if its got this bad... maybe its time to think about if the bad times out weigh the good and see where to go from there.
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Sorry it has taken me awhile to respond to your reply. I vent then forget to come back and check to see if I have comments!
We tried couples counseling back in the summer of 2006. He went in with a chip on his shoulder and a prepared speech. In his mind he is right and I am wrong, and I just need to get over it.
And I will admit to not being perfect, but I am not that damn off all the time!
Stopped going to counseling because I felt it was just a waste of time and money. Nothing was going to change. On either end.
I am just stubborn enough to not budge when he doesn;t know when to quit.
I really should be in counseling (again) for just me, but I cannot find anyone that is covered by our insurance. And unfortunately I do not have the cash for it.
So I just take it one day at a time. More days than not I need to leave, but at this point I don't have the options I need to do that.
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