Прородственные связи

[lerisha]

Френдлента регулярно приносит рассказы про родственников, которые рассказывают, как жить вместо того, чтобы помочь материально. И даже лезут руками и ногами в чужую жизнь, чтобы навести там собственный порядок

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[lubimaya_nebom]

После рождения моей доченьки (28.08.14) ейный пап для начала объявился, а потом полюбил дите всей душей,но через месяц. Ему прос тительно (60 лет) и можно сказать из-за радости по случаю обретения нового ребенка.

[lerisha]

Не, дочерин отец принимает участие в ее жизни всецело, даже не живя с нами. Я про собственного. Ему вот тоже в декабре 60, и он решил в честь этого, как я предполагаю, сделать себе подарок и избавиться, наконец, от ненужной дочери и внучки. Я решила не мешать.

[lubimaya_nebom]

Лер, может у твоего папы своя бурная жизнь настала? У моего-то только вот сейчас, по его словам, так круто)))).

[lerisha]

У него она давно)) Но ему она никогда не мешала заниматься младшей, правильной дочерью.
Проблема-то не в отсутствии времени, а в том, что я "ебанутая, как вся твоя семейка" и не соответствую его представлениям о дочери, которой можно гордиться.

[elarbee]

Not only am I going to visit mine for a week and a half, I started early on the fight about their visit in February. Fuck me!

Plus, I just read my mother's semi-biographical book (you know, so that when I come visit, she can't lord "you haven't even devoted a minute of your life to read my book!" guilt trip). Let's say that either she has a really vivid imagination, or she's losing her marbles already. What she wrote about me and especially Andy was a bit far from reality. Of course, she veered toward showing us off as better than we are, so I'm thinking she just wanted to show off and look good for her readers. Regardless, I'm about to have a fucking fun couple of weeks with the 'rents. My best plan is to lock myself in the one room in the house with locks (the bathroom) and feign not feeling well.

[lerisha]

Oh my! Sympathizing with you with all my mights. %O

I don't seem to have any remindings from the most unmanagable part of my family until December at least. In December Dad is turning 60, and I wonder if they decide I owe them a visit or not. Anyway I've already made the decision))

I guess for my father and his wife I'm nothing but an nuisance. So my diasappearing from the radar might be considered as a blessing by them.

[elarbee]

Yeah, actually, this is my parents' 60th we're going for, plus Andy's cousin's wedding.

My issue is that my mother is so pathologically attached to me, there is no chance she'll ever leave me alone, no matter how big a fight we could have. I am never the one that calls back first, and when she does, her usual MO is to ignore everything that happened before.

[lerisha]

A couple of weeks ago my sister said she needed to improve her English. We skyped, talked and than she refused saying they are having their flat remodelled and she has no normal connection. I can't stop thinking it was my stepmother's order in order to learn about my news, whether it is bad (hopefully). It is not, so no need to communicate any more. My sister hardly ever skypes me)) For her it's enough to have a quick word while I'm talking to step mother. Sorry to disappoint them. ;))

My parents are certainly not attached to me. I sometimes think they consider me as a kind of a much younger sibling they didn't ask for and now they have to look after. Well, the sibling is 35 already and doesn't need their care anymore.

[atreia]

я тут недавно тоже к психологу сдалась. ЧТобы как-товылезти из-под маминого понимания моего счастья. Но я только начала, так что пока результаты мелкие.

[lerisha]

Мы с моей 2 года трудимся)) Это дооолгий процесс.