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[lay]

well the doctor put me off work today and tomorrow....i have some kinda infection. and im on antibiotics again!!! in the past six months ive probably been on more antibiotics than in my entire life! lol it sucks, i hate being sick. i only get on here to complain, sorry guys. im actually thinking about deleting this thing because it really

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[krazyk]

Is there anyway you can move out on your own, and not live with Mitch? That might make things better with your mom. Maybe you could move into an apartment with a friend or something. That way you would still be on your own.

[lay]

There's really not any way i could live on my own. I plan on going to part time this fall when i go back to school too. And all of my friends still live here in Lee Co. none of them want to move up to Norton or BSG. I have looked at all of the options in the past and right now. I just hope everything will work its way out. Thanks Kristi!

[pixie_dust619]

Lay I went through the same thing with my parents when I moved in with Chris. My mom didn't speak to me for a week b/c of it and dad wouldn't even look at me. It was bad all together. It did get better though. After they saw that I was much happier and that it was for the best it all kind of fixed itself. The best advice I can give is to follow you're heart. Sometimes you have to do what makes YOU happy. People will eventually come around.

[pixie_dust619]

Oh...and please don't leave.... :( I'll miss you...

and...if you want to talk call me!!! It's been FOREVER!! 843-861-3678 (my cell) or 843-861-3687 (chris' cell)

[lay]

Yea i understand that, i dont think i could live if i couldn't talk to my mom whenever i wanted to. we talk about everything, i just want her to understand. im hoping i can talk to her some more about it before i make my final decision. thanks soo much for you advice, hopefully it will all work out!!! =)

oh and ill be sure to keep in touch when i delete this thing, it's not goodbye forever. ;) i wrote down those numbers too so it'll be ok!

[mommy2be2006]

Well my parents felt the same way when i moved in with cody.. But i guess they had reason too because he was a moron..

But when me and John moved in together they were happy because I was happy..
I mean they might be mad at you and not talk to you for a week or so.. BUT they will get over it and deal with it and just think how much better things will be. I know i couldnt stand my mother when I lived at home with them and now that I dont live there our relationship is much better..
I wish you and mitch the best ;o)

[lay]

My parents dont have a problem with Mitch at all, he fits in perfect with us. And my Mom and I get along for the most part, we rarely fight. Another thing, she thinks that if we move in together that he will never marry me. I intend on having a really good talk with him about everything too. lol that sounds bad, but id like to know where he stands with it all too. So we'll. =) thanks!!

[metalches]

Well, I know we're not friends or anything but I like giving advice so here goes.
I agree that you know what you want & what will make you happy. Your mom just doesn't want you to do something you might regret later on. (i'm not saying that you will) You are an adult & YOU should do what you think is right for YOU.
But, you better be sure to have that talk w/ him about stuff b/c I think men do get too comfortable in relationships sometimes & need a wake-up call every now & then. I mean, me & Trav have been living together for over a year, have been engaged for over a year & have a baby & we're still not hitched! lol. Hopefully things work out for you. Just remember, it's you who'll have to live w/ your decisions, not your mom. Moma knows best most of the time but she's not perfect either. Good luck=)
Sorry it was so long=/

[lay]

Thank You, that was excellent advice, I really appreciate it!!

My mom has always been really strict on my sister and me, actually she still is! lol so i feel like if i dont do it her way she will be upset any way it goes. Kinda like im damned if i do and damned if i dont kinda situation. but i definatly think it's time for me to be selfish about something. and i agree whole-heartedly with everything you said. especially about men getting too comfortable, mitch and i have been together for 3 years and i kinda feel like we need a change. sooo, i have a lot to think and talk about before i make this decision. But yes, thanks again!

Tell Travis to marry you already! =)

[metalches]

You're welcome!
I think we've decided to get married in September(finally:)

[lay]

Awesome, im very happy for you both!!

[dianeyeary]

i think a lot of what that is, is that ur mom just doesn't want u to leave.. ur the baby of the family and it's hard for her to let u go.. but u do have to do what is right for u and what makes u happy. i think everyone goes through that when they move out.. i know i did. my mamaw's didn't agree at all. but i done what i thought was right cause if we let everyone make decisions for us we'd get no where. i personally think that it's good to live with someone before u get married.. that way u get to really know them. ur mom will prob get mad but she can't be mad at u forever. hope u figure everything out.

[lay]

thanks, i definatly know that being the baby has something to do with it.....but she's still got amanda and allie here....allie can make up for me leaving. haha i still dont know what im going to do tho. but thanks for the advice!! =)