X-posted with FB. But, really guys, I wasn't expecting this when we dated the first time...

Feb 22, 2012 18:14

o.. i've never dated. I've had friends who turned into relationships (and not many of those), but that just isn't the same. We've dated at least once a week, every week, since the beginning of the year. Our kids have met and played together, his friends like me, and we have yet to have a date lasting fewer than 4 hours. Today, he hesitatingly ( Read more... )

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fractalwolf February 23 2012, 00:11:52 UTC
Wow. But as for it getting seriouser, ... yes and no?

At the very least you're a friend that he's spent a significant amount of time with, and enjoys spending 1 day a week with.

Any move that would impact whether anyone could still hang out with their friends SHOULD bring up thoughts of their friends. So while yes, it might be an indication that he's looking for a more long-term/serious relationship than you are, it might also not be.

However, if he gets a job in Durham, I don't see any reason why you couldn't continue to see each other. True, gas is expensive, but I know people who commute between the two cities daily.

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