Guys work differently. He just spent 3 days with you, in his mind, he is recovering. My hubby does that....unless he tells you differently, let it go. It's okay!
You should. Trust me, if someone isn't right, he will tell you.
You always knew this but I had two long distance relationships over the internet. First one - William. We met in real life and it didn't work out. Second one - Chris. We met and it did work out. I know both sides to this and trust me when I say this - he will tell you if something is wrong and he hasn't so that's a GOOD thing.
and I really think if you are this concerned, you should open up and tell him how you feel. That's important because if you do that, he will know. If you don't and keep on doing this, your mind will always be uneasy and you will always be upset - AT HIM (that's not a healthy relationship). How can he fix something if you are acting normal? Men can't read our thoughts. Heck, I wish they can though!!! lol But seriously, if something is bothering you, don't hide it from him. Be up front. Be honest and open.
Don't think too much tonight, Colleen... your mind needs a rest. :) :) *HUGS*
was william up front with you immediately after you met that first and only time? how long did you have to wait to know that it didn't work out- or did you know as soon as you met?
i already feel that I know something is wrong just because he waited all day to talk to me- because he wasn't online. i mean, that's our routine. I'm afraid to talk to him about this- especially now that I know he's upset and worried about his finances. I feel that it will make me look needy and more insecure than I am. It makes me feel very selfish.
i feel like if he wanted to communicate with me- he would have. i mean last night I straight up told him in a text "I've been worried all day." and he never bothered to ask why.
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You always knew this but I had two long distance relationships over the internet. First one - William. We met in real life and it didn't work out. Second one - Chris. We met and it did work out. I know both sides to this and trust me when I say this - he will tell you if something is wrong and he hasn't so that's a GOOD thing.
and I really think if you are this concerned, you should open up and tell him how you feel. That's important because if you do that, he will know. If you don't and keep on doing this, your mind will always be uneasy and you will always be upset - AT HIM (that's not a healthy relationship). How can he fix something if you are acting normal? Men can't read our thoughts. Heck, I wish they can though!!! lol But seriously, if something is bothering you, don't hide it from him. Be up front. Be honest and open.
Don't think too much tonight, Colleen... your mind needs a rest. :) :) *HUGS*
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i already feel that I know something is wrong just because he waited all day to talk to me- because he wasn't online. i mean, that's our routine. I'm afraid to talk to him about this- especially now that I know he's upset and worried about his finances. I feel that it will make me look needy and more insecure than I am. It makes me feel very selfish.
i feel like if he wanted to communicate with me- he would have. i mean last night I straight up told him in a text "I've been worried all day." and he never bothered to ask why.
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