If she doesn't know you that well she has no room to say any of that shit. And she definitely doesn't have the right to speak for others. Especially when she's never spoken to or met any of them either. She just sounds like a real bitch.
I'm not really surprised that she went and deleted all her nasty comments. That seems to be what always happens. And if it's not online they still try to make it seem like it never happened.
This is key: this is a girl I see, like TWICE a year and it is only at parties and when she is WASTED. She knows nothing about me.She knows nothing about you, you only see her rarely and when she's wasted, and she's a raving lunatic when she's wasted (and kind of a bitch when she's not, sounds like to me). So why do you care what she thinks? If she's making these statements on your FB account, most of the people reading them know better than to believe the crap she's slinging as "truth," yes? And she's also insulting them in the same breath, saying they are so insincere to you they can't tell you what they really think
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All in all, though, I'd go back to my original statements here. She's not your friend, and you don't value her opinion. So if she chooses to express that opinion in way that is offensive to you (particularly such an aggressive way as this)? Your best option would be to just hang up on her. Cut off her access to say it TO YOU because there is no benefit to her to say it to anyone BUT you. So if you defriend her so she can't say such rude things to you on your FB? Then you've taken away all her power to upset you. And trust your friends to know you better than to believe any of this crap she's saying. Don't worry that they share these opinions ... if they did, they wouldn't be your friends
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See, this is way more how I feel today than yesterday. Yesterday was all about sadness. Today is more about the whole reality of the situation and the fact that she's worth nothing to me anyway so I shouldn't worry too much about it. The worst of it all really was was when she said that all our other friends felt exactly the same about me because I had a time in my life when that actually happened and it was awful. But I found that that was incredibly untrue last night, so I do feel much better in regards to that, the important part. Oh, and she already unfriended me the other night, so that part is already taken care of for me, lol. :) Don't have to deal with that crap.
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I'm not really surprised that she went and deleted all her nasty comments. That seems to be what always happens. And if it's not online they still try to make it seem like it never happened.
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Yeah, I saw that one coming pretty far away too...
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Oh, and she already unfriended me the other night, so that part is already taken care of for me, lol. :) Don't have to deal with that crap.
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