Comments | ladylade: My Brain is Being Weird Right Now

ladylade

My Brain is Being Weird Right Now

Dec 07, 2011 01:28

So, I've been making pamphlets on rape culture for my Women's Studies class, and right now I'm procrastinating and reading a mild BDSM fic, and I've got this weird notion in my head. A dom is supposed to, above all, take care of their sub, mentally and physically, sometimes even to the point of curbing destructive habits and creating a structure ( Read more... )

random things to know, what?, my brain should probably be shot, ...that was probably tmi

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laraneia December 7 2011, 08:22:42 UTC

That makes sense to me :)

ladylade December 7 2011, 19:58:10 UTC

Lol, I'm glad it does. I really need to stop posting things at 1:30 in the morning and start sleeping.

laraneia December 7 2011, 20:36:29 UTC

hehehe

fotoshop_cutout December 7 2011, 16:02:53 UTC

It seems logical, yes, but I have nowhere near the same level (at the very least) of relationship with my therapist as my Dom. I find that I do not have an emotional attachment to my therapist in the least, where you would find one with my Dom.

So basically I'm saying that I to a lesser extent--yes. You could always pose this question over at FetLife or a site similar and get tons of responses; but that's only if you wanted. Also, sorry for the TMI >.>

ladylade December 7 2011, 20:02:42 UTC

Yeah, they're no where near the same as far as trust and emotional attachment goes, but my brain was like, "over-arcing theme!" and then I made a D: face.

Also, I'm convinced there's no such thing as TMI on lj. Although this might be a projection of my own lack of shame. (I swear, kink memes totally take your shame-ginity. And yes I just when there.)

fotoshop_cutout December 9 2011, 02:54:41 UTC

LOL I have no shame either, but apparently other people do?

They definitely do!

olukemi December 7 2011, 16:05:16 UTC

...That makes so much sense, it's kind of scary. o.o

ladylade December 7 2011, 20:05:48 UTC

Right? I haven't been to a therapist since I was like, seven (mom thought it would be a good idea because she was getting divorced when I was really young, and it probably was), but somehow they just reminded me of each other, especially a very lack dom/sub relationship and an intensive therapy relationship.

olukemi December 7 2011, 20:09:04 UTC

Yeah. Wow. It really explains why I've never been able to stick with a therapist. I don't trust anyone that implicitly and it's kind of required to make any progress, I think.

ladylade December 8 2011, 02:12:38 UTC

I'm just a bundle of distrust towards people, and just the thought of having to tell someone everything in my head...it makes my survival instincts go crazy. I really admire people who stick with therapy, and I understand rationally that patient confidentiality exists and works, but I just can't comprehend giving up something that intimate (which is probably also why I don't want a romantic relationship with anyone, either).

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