Nobody likes me, everybody hates me, I think I'm going to go eat worms...

[ladybugbleu]

Honesty is a character trait lost on so many these days. What's worse, respect and courtesy seem to be lost just as badly as honesty does. After a year, wouldn't you think that a friend who bitches almost constantly about no one having any of those three aforementioned characteristics for him would try as hard as he could not to do to others as

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[anonymous]

wow, that guy sounds psycho and i think i know who u are talking about. u should wait to post that until after the 24 days and everybody has moved out. u prolly got to much going for you to waist energy on a "problem child"and surely he knows his 'loser' traits without u elaborating on them, but then again i don't have the guy as a roomate and if i did i would be saying post it, tell him the way things are!!!

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[ladybugbleu]

I'm not worried if he reads it at all. In fact, I hope he does. I've had to be the bigger person in all of our dealings and I'm sick of not getting respect.

You have to give respect in order to get it, and he is not giving it in any way, shape, form or fashion.

[hey_i_amdaftfad]

from an outside perspective I have a few opinions/observations of this:

1- it's probably one of the best straight-forward letters I've ever read.
2- I'm jealous, because I write nothing like that.... ever.
3- Wow... that's quite a problem, and well, kind of unexpected, especially since all I'm exposed to is your entries on here, and it's not a constant issue I was aware of.
4- Still...that's inconsiderate (but a stronger word), and I was hoping that this person un-named will/would read it, because it makes sense to me. I actually felt kind of guilty reading it myself, 'cause some parts applied to me.
5- nice ending... And God Bless, and... I'm looking for a compliment which doesn't sound odd, but it's 1:52 am, so it's not working. damn.
6- this wasn't supposed to be a list.

-J.

[ladybugbleu]

Well, this has been an ongoing thing now for a year. I have tried to cut him some slack, but sometimes I really wonder why. Every single thing he does is of selfish origin, and the way he has treated me... my family... and our mutual friends is just pathetic. It's pathetic and sad that you can think you know someone only to find out the gross truth about them... and it is gross.

I wash my hands of him. The way he has treated me is inexcusable. And now, everyone can gather together and say collectively, "I told you so." because they all did, and I didn't listen. Right from the start -- they were right about him and about the kind of person he is. I'm just sorry I had to go through all of this to find out for myself what everyone else already knew.

Thanks for the encouragement -- I sure do need it at this point!

[coachttu33]

One last point you left out:

"Your room stinks like ass hole."

You go girl! I'm sorry you've had to put up with this for so long, but everything needed to be said!!!

[ladybugbleu]

HOW COULD I FORGET!

I need to ask him when his last day is here so we can have it fumigated. I don't want my office smelling like that! *shudder*

Good grief...

[sarahlady]

Well, hot damn! I'm sorry the living situation is so awful for you right now. Just think, one more month ... one more month ... one more month. Find your happy place, Hon. :)

I don't know what you've been going through, but I will jump in on the whole thing about the way Maggie was treated. It sucks ... and she deserves SO MUCH better. I've only met her a few times, but it's obvious to all that she's good people. Sometimes things that seem the hardest at the time are actually blessings in disguise. It doesn't make up for the lack of consideration, which, honestly ... REALLY bothered me when I heard about it. I just sure hope she sees how much better off she is now.

[ladybugbleu]

I know that she does. I'm sorry for the way that you were treated as well. We all know that you were meaning well. You are such a nice, sweet person. It's a shame that the fact that you are the kind of person you are was taken advantage of and that he kept on pestering you, and what's more, it's a shame that you had to deal with that.

I'm just glad that both of you girls saw right through him and that neither of you were hurt anymore by him.

You are right about the blessings in disguise. I know that Mags is very happy with someone who truly loves her, not someone who will use her and discard her when he loses interest.

[sarahlady]

Yeah ... well ... shit happens. That's all I have to say about that. Water under the bridge, you know?

I just think it sucks that we haven't seen each other in so long!! I'll be the first to admit that "situations" have made it difficult for me to know if it would be okay for me to come around and whatnot in the preceeding months. Maybe now we can start hanging out again. :)

[ladybugbleu]

Yes ma'am -- those "situations" will be moving out at the end of the month, so you are more than welcome to come and grace The Barn once again! I don't blame you for not coming around -- there's no need to stir all that drama up again. Sheesh!

I miss the ever lovin' snot out of you. BTW, has Amber e-mailed you about the goings-on of a certain up and coming bachelorette party? >:oD