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Aug 13, 2013 13:13

One of the things I fear in having a daughter is that our relationship will end up like my grandmother and my mother, my grandmother and her mother. I'm seeing a pattern in these relationships. It wasn't until recently that I heard my grandmother talk bad about her mother. While I was growing up she always talked fondly of her, but recently she's ( Read more... )

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asilversheep August 13 2013, 23:42:53 UTC
I think that's a good goal. I mean you know what you don't want, and you'll just have to strive to make it so.

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lady_leia_solo August 14 2013, 06:19:43 UTC
Yeah I want to stop this shit dead in it's tracks.

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lusimeles August 14 2013, 06:03:08 UTC
i used to have a total no-kids-ever policy that was due in large part to the fact that my mother and i do not get along either. but we've improved over the past few years, mostly due to me realizing i can only expect so much of her as a daughter, and i vow not to repeat the mistakes she made while raising my own child. it's just, you have to look at it as, here is a list of things i know NOT to fuck up.

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lady_leia_solo August 14 2013, 06:18:52 UTC
Exactly how I feel about it.

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amelia_seyroon August 14 2013, 20:18:03 UTC
/HUGS

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