at what point does it go from degrading to liberation of women's sexuality? I just wonder what your boundary is because you seem OK with Ms. Von Teese doing it but not me or regular girl on the street.
I, personally, wouldn't do it. Nothing to do with feeling degraded and everything to do with low self-esteem. I think if you're doing it to allow someone to treat you like dirt, call you a slut, etc. then yeah, it's pretty f-ing degrading. But if you're doing it proud of yourself, secure in your sexuality, and reclaiming your body as your own...go for it.
But I have a very different view of sex work than most people, which this doesn't fall into because you're not getting paid. but it's close, same general idea.
I'm not asking all to be a bitch but rather to be annoyingly curious. you know i love you. ;-)
I think I made this confusing because I am mostly referring to the context, the person who invited me, and their purposes... Does that make sense
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Not sure whom you're referring to, and not sure if the person I'm thinking of is on your friends list, but somebody keeps inviting me to "shoots" AND posts pictures of me scantily clad on his facebook, tagging me. I untag myself. I don't really want those pictures up there. That's for Brady only. He creeps me out.
*crosses fingers that he's not on your friends list*
DEFINITELY The Same Person! And No, he's not on my Friend's List! ~I told him to take any pictures of me down off his facebook, and he said he would but hasn't! I had to remove all of the tags as well!
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Read my response to Jenn below, I think I made myself clearer there! (*Laughs*)
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I, personally, wouldn't do it. Nothing to do with feeling degraded and everything to do with low self-esteem. I think if you're doing it to allow someone to treat you like dirt, call you a slut, etc. then yeah, it's pretty f-ing degrading. But if you're doing it proud of yourself, secure in your sexuality, and reclaiming your body as your own...go for it.
But I have a very different view of sex work than most people, which this doesn't fall into because you're not getting paid. but it's close, same general idea.
I'm not asking all to be a bitch but rather to be annoyingly curious. you know i love you. ;-)
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~That's why I was surprised when I was told I was intimidating! I hardly ever feel that way!
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*crosses fingers that he's not on your friends list*
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~I told him to take any pictures of me down off his facebook, and he said he would but hasn't! I had to remove all of the tags as well!
...Yeah...
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