Awww, you're such a honey. I honestly which I could of experienced what you did with your parents, you seem to love them very very much and although I do love mine too, it gives me so much hope for myself and my son. I know sometimes I don't show it, but you give me so much faith for the things I do, *hugs*.
You're just as strong, I know you don't always think that you are, but we all have our own stresses and we all have our own rough patches and you should never compare them to others because it hurts for us in a completely different way than it would feel for someone else. Idk where I'm going with this really, but I think you're one of the strongest people I know and you definitely make me see things in a completely different way.
Thanks for sharing honey and thanks for being there for me.
My strong stable mind... Yep. :-) We can thank my strong father for that. He was strong both of body and mind. Yeah, I love my dad very, very much.... even if he is dead. And my mom... Oh gawd, yes I do. Even if she infuriates me sometimes and makes me laugh with joy sometimes, it is still my mom and I love her really fucking much. She is almost as strong as dad was, and definitely as supportive. :-)
Thanx for being a great friend. I am glad I took up your offer of roleplaying with you. Got me a good friend in the process. ;-) *hugs*
I'm glad I replied! Haha! Remember I was so hesitant because of all the douches in the fandom?! Lols, so glad you weren't one of them, got me someone stable and able to kick my ass when I need it. ;)
*smirk* Yeah, I am good at kicking asses and telling it like it is, honest and straight forward. Guess what? ;-) Both mom and dad thought us that. *wicked grin*
And apparently I am good at it in english to. WOHOO!
I never heard the story of how your parents met! That is so romantic.. where in the US did they visit you? Sounds like they had a blast here, and I'm glad.
I know how much it sucks to lose your dad. I know just how you're feeling... but you know what the good thing is... you're able to remember him fondly, lovingly, and still laugh about things he used to do. I think that part- still laughing- takes the longest to get back, but once you do its worth it.
And agreed! Your mom is amazing. She's really pulled through amazingly in the time I've been reading your journal. She's one tough cookie. (But then, so are you.)
Romantic? Ha ha ha! Dad was less romantic then a greystone, I swear... But still very loving. He had to ask us kids what to do when mom had her birthday. And he never remembered their wedding day... I think mom can count on one hand the roses she got from him, not counting her bridal bouquet. He couldn't cook or bake either, he even failed pasta and pancakes. *laughs at memory
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Your parents sound like quite the team and as much as you miss your dad, the absolutely GOOD person you are is a testament to both he and your mum and the greatest legacy he could have left.
I'm so happy that the gastric bypass is working for your mum. I've considered it, just for the sake of my knees, but I worry about losing so fast and having the excess skin problems, cause fixing that is cosmetic and I could never afford it. I think I'll have to stick to yogurt and walking.
Here in Sweden when you make a gastric bypass, you get a surgery to get rid of the extra skin for free to even if it is cosmetic. Well, all health care in Sweden is for free. The maximum amount you have to pay during a year is $104 + $32 for every night you have to spend in the hospital. That's it. Including medicine and whatever else you might need. Cosmetic surgery you have to pay for, though... But since getting rid of the excess skin is considered part of the process of a gastric bypass, that is included. :-) At least, that is how it works here.
I know, I know... My strong stable mind, and... well... disgusting honesty... That I got from them both, and you are right. It is a legacy I am very proud off. I know my dad would be very very proud of me and my brother if he saw us today. I am very sure of it.
And mom, well... She is nuts, but I love her. *lol*
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Awww, you're such a honey. I honestly which I could of experienced what you did with your parents, you seem to love them very very much and although I do love mine too, it gives me so much hope for myself and my son. I know sometimes I don't show it, but you give me so much faith for the things I do, *hugs*.
You're just as strong, I know you don't always think that you are, but we all have our own stresses and we all have our own rough patches and you should never compare them to others because it hurts for us in a completely different way than it would feel for someone else. Idk where I'm going with this really, but I think you're one of the strongest people I know and you definitely make me see things in a completely different way.
Thanks for sharing honey and thanks for being there for me.
Love you to death! ♥
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Thanx for being a great friend. I am glad I took up your offer of roleplaying with you. Got me a good friend in the process. ;-) *hugs*
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And apparently I am good at it in english to. WOHOO!
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I know how much it sucks to lose your dad. I know just how you're feeling... but you know what the good thing is... you're able to remember him fondly, lovingly, and still laugh about things he used to do. I think that part- still laughing- takes the longest to get back, but once you do its worth it.
And agreed! Your mom is amazing. She's really pulled through amazingly in the time I've been reading your journal. She's one tough cookie. (But then, so are you.)
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Your parents sound like quite the team and as much as you miss your dad, the absolutely GOOD person you are is a testament to both he and your mum and the greatest legacy he could have left.
I'm so happy that the gastric bypass is working for your mum. I've considered it, just for the sake of my knees, but I worry about losing so fast and having the excess skin problems, cause fixing that is cosmetic and I could never afford it. I think I'll have to stick to yogurt and walking.
*hugs* to you.
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I know, I know... My strong stable mind, and... well... disgusting honesty... That I got from them both, and you are right. It is a legacy I am very proud off. I know my dad would be very very proud of me and my brother if he saw us today. I am very sure of it.
And mom, well... She is nuts, but I love her. *lol*
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