kids and stuff

[kschap]

I think it's telling that my mom always laments the fact that I've grown up, and misses the days where she could "dress [me] in anything [she] wanted and [I] wouldn't complain about it," whereas the only real "fantasy" I have about my possible (but not likely, at least not at this point) future motherhood is the development of my kid into a young

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[crowjoy]

I believe children choose their parents! Careful what you wish for! :-D

[kschap]

Hmm, yeah, I've heard that idea before... I think I agreed at the time, too

[bolowolf]

I would encourage you to continue thinking about whether you want children or not and the reasons.

I probably don't need to mention anything about the world being overcrowded, or the wonderful bond parents can have with their children. I think its important for it to be a conscious choice, whatever one chooses.

[kschap]

Yeah, I haven't for-sure made up my mind yet, one way or the other. Right now it sounds like a very unappealing idea to me but perhaps that's just because of my current circumstances. Who knows.