slut or not?

[kschap]

How forthcoming are you with information about your sexual history? Do you keep your "number" a safely guarded secret, or are you an open book who will tell anyone who asks because you just don't give a shit? Are you honest with potential/current partners, or do you just keep each other updated on your STD status? Do you think there is ever "too

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[ammre]

i'm the open book girl. I learned early on, that it's very hard for people to tell secrets about you, when you've nothing to hide.

# of partners: Somewhere arround 13.
# of std's: only 1.

[movingtargets]

Male partners: 3

[kschap]

> I'm kind of an open book too. I'm actually somewhat reserved and quiet IRL so sometimes it takes pulling the slut card to convince people [and potential sexual partners] that I'm not a prude, lol.

Yeah, same here. Though lately I've been more shy about sexual matters than I used to be, for whatever reason. I don't really like it. :P

Escapades

[gypsymothpest]

Partners, female: 6 or 7
Partners male: 0
Multiple partners: 0

When I came "of age" in the 80s, herpes was the scare. Unfortunately or fortunately I would back off off under pretty much all opportunities. Herpes was widespread, but in the area I lived it was epidemic = all my friends got it. The thought literally scared the pants NOT off of me.

Then the next epidemic...

I am married now and disease free. I guess I made the right choice.

I was going through some old video tapes the other day. Years ago I had a party and I ran around with my new Hi-8mm camcorder videoing everybody. I evidently left the room and someone else picked up the camera and was going around asking people questions. When he got to a girl I had dated a few times he asked what she thought of me. She said "if he plays his cards right he will get some tonight." That night, I remember, I was hitting on another girl. If only I had known, it would have changed my life not necessarily for the better though.

Kelley, will you add me as a "friend"?.

Re: Escapades

[kschap]

Hmm.

I'm not sure why I should. You've already got me on your friends list so you can see most of what I post anyway, and I'm not really interested in someone who's so anonymous that all they post in their journal is random holiday greetings.

No offense, dude... if you can give me a good reason (like, you comment a lot, because I am a comment whore), I'll consider it. ;)

[wakingdreaming]

I'll tell friends and girlfriends how many people I've been with and stuff like that. In fact, I've been told I'm too forthcoming with this information.

[tartcherry]

I think I give myself the double standard & think my numbers too high. Hell, Its the highest of anyone who posted so far.

Male partners: 17
Female partners: 1
STD's: 0
Pregnancy scares: 1
Actual pregnancies: 0
Threesomes: 0

[kschap]

Yeah, I've been doing the same thing lately myself.

I don't hold anyone else to any kind of standard, really. Just myself. :P