Sick and tired of being sick and tired.....

[koolassken]

I don't know what it is lately, but for the past few weeks I have been in this funk that I can't get out of. It just seems like things aren't going the way they should. Relationships have basically been shot to hell, folks at my job (well just the head Administrative Assistant who thinks she runs shit) can't mind her own fucking business, and I

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[perfect_errors]

Sometimes I get that feeling too. =/ Especially when I've had a really bad day and somebody is getting on my nerves.

I feel I'm ready for a relationship because I believe I'm a good girlfriend but at the same time...it's hard to meet that person I can be myself around, which is partially my fault because I'm very guarded. So until I find someone I'm comfortable with, I'm solo. Fly or die, huh?

[koolassken]

I feel you about being yourself around someone. I know that I am a very guarded person and I don't let my guard down easily. You seem like you would be a good girlfriend, at least you have some sense lol:)

Me personally, I have gotten my shit together, is it too much to ask for her to have hers together also?

[bigoak25]

I know how you feel man. you think that people are so down for you, but as time goes on you see that everything isn't what is used to be. Folks start changing on you, or maybe they just start showing the true essence of who they really are. The worst feeling in the world is knowing you would take a bullet for someone that would just watch you get shot if the shoe were on the other foot, and yet they tell you all the time how glad they are that you are cool with them.

As for the relationship status, I know where you are coming from. I think everyone at some point and time are in love with the thought of being in love, but some people truly make it to that point sooner than others. the bad thing about that is that some of those people are dating each other lol. all you can do is hope that the person you want to be with is on that level with you, or atleast willing to work towards that level.

[koolassken]

True, everybody is not on the same level as far as where they want to be in a relationship, but if you are both not working toward that common goal, then you shouldn't be together in the first place.