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[king_elessar7]

Ridiculous. I can't believe my sister. She is such an arrogant, conceited annoyance that thinks she is right all the time and won't stop until everyone else thinks so. She doesn't realize that when she talks she pisses people off. I wasn't mad about her talking about Steph at all. It was the way she was talking down to me. I don't think so, I

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[soccrkid7634]

what's going on?

[syphon500]

never before have a read a post that I did not get so much as this one.

Oh, I'm visiting again in April. Last weekend. Hope I get to see you guys this time.

[zaid25]

The fact that you can actually say "I don't think so, I am definitely her superior in basically all positive aspects of life" tells me that, in fact, you aren't. In my eyes, despite not knowing the specifics of the situation, it seems that you both are acting pretty immature. What you say about your sister may be true: she may be in the habit of talking down to people or appearing superior, whether she means to or not. Your response to this, however, is quite immature. If you want your sister to change your attitude, flaming and ranting about it on lj is not the way to do it. If you want to actually act as the mature, older brother than sit down with her calmly and politely point out some things that you don't agree with and that you feel are uninentionally hurting other people's feelings. The fact that Steph was involved makes me feel that you are too close to the situation to act rationally and maturely about the situation though; so far, when it comes to your girlfriends, I can't say I've had a lot of evidence of you keeping

[king_elessar7]

I don't see how, by saying that, I'm not her superior. I am much more mature than her. Yes, I was very angry at the time of writing it, so that's why a few things sound a bit weird.

[zaid25]

It's not that you sound weird...what I find weird is simply because I don't know the specifics of the situation. You are angry at her for being immature and acting arrogant. You even say, in your third sentence "She is such an arrogant, conceited..." Yet you follow up with the response that you are "definitely her superior in basically all positive aspects of life." Um, I don't know about you, but that statement seems pretty arrogant and conceited to me. So you see, in saying that you are her superior, you are acting just like her, and since the basis of your argument is that you are her better, this statement actually brings you down to her level. In a nutshell, you are acting just like her. Maturity isn't a measure of superiority, it's a measure of growth (literally....a "mature" animal is one that has reached adulthood). What you said, and the way you responded on live journal was immature. Granted, you do what you want with your live journal, but I guarentee this response doesn't do anyone any good, except maybe make you feel

[king_elessar7]

What, about Hussein? He is just leeching money by staying alive. There is not benefit whatsoever in him staying alive at this point. He has taken countless lives already.