Heinlein-ian!

[khall]

       My new metaphor: You and your husband/wife are sailing on a yacht called 'your marriage'. When it sinks, in the strait of choice in between the isle of kink and the vanilla mainland, and you and your unconscious spouse are left floating there in a life raft, you have two choices. Jump overboard and speed-swim toward the island, or sit out

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[khall]

*nods and hugs* I know. It always costs dearly though. But that's part of the reason I can say I'm poly to people. Because...anybody who thinks it was about quick sex or threesomes or 'easier life' or 'no commitments' has no clue what they're talking about, or the price I paid for what I have/want/am. I paid it, just like when people card me and I tell them I'm 40. They go "Oh it's good to be thought young though." No it's not. I paid for all 40 years. I want credit for them in the one time in life when it would reduce my hassle. Thank you. My back, especially waking up in the morning, contains debits for all 40 of those years clearly charged on it.:)

K.