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[keptawake]

I talked to Danny about yesterday. At first he was actually upset; he said it hurts that we're building our lives together and planning even things like kids names and I didn't trust him. I reassured him that of course I trust him not to cheat on me. I mean, that doesn't mean it's not still upsetting. I explained that he doesn't even know

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[eotheod]

I'm so slow! I missed it all, sorry. :<

I would just like to say that it is his responsibility to not hurt you. He might think he can handle being friends with this girl and hanging out with her friend and drinking, but the sheer fact that he hurt you in the process means he's not doing his job. The real important thing is that he never does it again if he knows how much it hurts you. If he still does things that put these other girls' happiness before yours then you've got a problem.

[keptawake]

Thanks :) That's how I feel, too. He won't do that again, I'm sure. I just hope he doesn't do something else just as thoughtless, you know? Meh. I'm thinking he gets it more now, because while he was upset at first, he cheered up fairly quickly, which I don't think would have happened if he still felt I'd been unfair or distrusting.

[eotheod]

Good. As long as he's learning it should be ok. I just don't want you getting hurt. &hearts