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[kennapea]

Is it okay to not like the people you love sometimes?

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[noodledays]

I don't know about okay, but it's perfectly natural in my book. <3

[kennapea]

Now if only I can learn to deal with not being liked.

[noodledays]

it can be a toughie. <3

[shinga]

I think it's case-to-case sometimes, but absolutely. I've gone through this with every family member, gone through it with Will (less so with past partners, but he's the only one I've lived with)... I just keep asking myself why I don't like them in that moment. Am I just in a bad mood, are they in a bad mood and being standoffish, do we just need space... but yeah it's very easy to go through a phase of not particularly liking some one you love very deeply. Generally speaking it's a problem if it goes on for way too long, but for short periods of time it's no big deal - might even be healthy. *hug*

[eidna]

I think so. I want to send Kris away a good portion of the time, but I still love him.

[yrcomplacency]

Absofuckingloutely. And if anyone says no, cut them.