Is it right to want someone/thing for yourself when you know it could hurt a friend? Especially when you know nothing would happen between them anyway?
Your happiness, or theirs? How do you know know if they're over it, and not lying?
1. there's nothing wrong with wanting. 2. if they said they're over it, go for it. your happiness is always more important. and your friends should be able to understand that.
i'm not sure if i'm supposed to answer this or not, but in my experience, i always put friends first, even though i shouldn't and i'm working on not doing that so often. i've been in two situations very recently where i've done things for friends that i shouldn't have. it put me in a bad situation and i'm still treated like shit.
if they say they're over it even if you dont' think they are, most likely, that's the case. if they say they're okay with it, i'd say to go for it, whatever it is. sometimes you have to think about yourself.
I choose to come back here because throughout my high-school years, I've never had a decent friend I could rely on. This is a place for me to talk about how I'm truely feel with hopes that someday I will find a friend to tell all my stories to.
I hate myself sometimes for being so jealous of my best friends that I can hardly stand it.
I hate it that she gets jealous of me when I'm hanging out with other people. I hate it that I sometimes want to hang out with my new(ish) group of friends more than I want to hang out with her. I hate that I pull away from what I know because I'm so scared that it's going to disappear like it always has.
Comments 14
Reply
Your happiness, or theirs? How do you know know if they're over it, and not lying?
Reply
2. if they said they're over it, go for it. your happiness is always more important. and your friends should be able to understand that.
Reply
Reply
if they say they're over it even if you dont' think they are, most likely, that's the case. if they say they're okay with it, i'd say to go for it, whatever it is. sometimes you have to think about yourself.
Reply
Reply
hate... no
indifference... most of the time
joy... is a weird word
Reply
I hate it that she gets jealous of me when I'm hanging out with other people. I hate it that I sometimes want to hang out with my new(ish) group of friends more than I want to hang out with her. I hate that I pull away from what I know because I'm so scared that it's going to disappear like it always has.
Reply
Leave a comment