friends cut

[kelkie]

i'm doing a friends cut - cleaning up my f-list for 2008. i'm cutting people whose journals i don't read, and also people who i feel like i don't connect with anymore. some people i like but i'm just not interested in their journals and they don't comment much, so no hard feelings.

comment here if you want to be kept.

♥

Comments

[kiissthesky]

I don't blame you for cutting me, and I'm sure it was from my last comment, but since I couldn't defend myself before, I'm going to do it here. I simply meant that living with someone is a HUGE commitment (as you already know from previously living with a boyfriend) and can often ruin relationships. I was just looking out for you by saying that after only dating a few months, you really don't know eachother as well as you might think.

[kelkie]

it wasn't only your last comment, but also the fact that i usually skip over your entries. i never really got into your journal. but we also haven't been friends for very long and i don't think you should be making assumptions about how well i know calvin, especially since i haven't updated much lately so nobody really knows how things are going. i've been thinking about this for a long time now - it's definitely come up with me and calvin and with his parents and mine. i think it's the right decision now, and i've waited until i felt completely comfortable with it. i don't need somebody who doesn't know me to tell me that i don't know my own boyfriend.

[kiissthesky]

I didn't mean you don't know him, and that doesn't mean you don't care about him, because it's obvious that you two care very much about eachother. All I'm saying is that the first few months of a relationship is more LUST than anything. I have been dating my boyfriend 18 months and I still learn new things about him every day! It's all about growing together, so I wish you two the best of luck.

I'm sorry we never got to know eachother, but I read your entries.

[kelkie]

if you want to stay, i'll keep you. your comment just mostly upset me because i got two similar comments in the same entry and it kind of set me off. it's up to you - i'm willing to give it another chance!

[un_luckyinlove]

Keep me! ♥

[kelkie]

of course!

and just so you know, i do always read, even if i don't comment.

[alisha_stiletto]

You un-friended me before I got to reply to what you had to say, so I'll do it here, because you're completely off base and for some reason I feel the need to tell you so.

Im not against your relationship - I don't know you other than the Chihuahua community - thats pretty much where my interest was...nothing profound. Nor do I care who you are or aren't with. Thats entirely your decision. My comments came because I pity you.Why? You are flighty, and impulsive and its sad. And yes, you are clearly very young with NO kind of guidance and no kind of belief in yourself that lets you know you have more worth than how you behave. Its sad, you're only happy when you're with a guy. You also hop from relationship to relationship. Flake. HUGE indicators of how the rest of your life is going to be when you grow up

[kelkie]

i really can't take you wishing me the best after the poor judgements you just made about me. this is the second relationship i've been in since you've known me, and before i was with anton i dated different people and had those experiences. mine and anton's relationship was over long before calvin came along, and i'm thankful i met him and he was the push to get me out of something that was going nowhere. so what if he's younger than me and not who i pictured myself with - we love each other and he cares about me on a deeper level than anyone i've ever been with. and i am so proud of him for turning his life around - so what if he didn't tell me about his addiction as soon as i met him - he's trying to change his life and he's come so far, why start a new relationship off like that? i don't hold that against him. i know him only as drug-free and i'm not going to judge him based on the person he was before i knew him. but i don't need to defend myself to you... i'm glad i removed you and kept friends who give me positive feedback and

[lucid_whisper]

I ♥ you, Kelly. *HUGS*

[kelkie]

thanks krystal!! i <3 you too :)

[hugeness]

KEEP ME BECAUSE I LOVE YOU TONS!!

PS: She's a bitch and don't listen to her... SERIOUSLY!

[kelkie]

hehe, i love you tons too!!

and yes, i made the right decision by unfriending her!

[wond3rfu1]

id like to stay

[kelkie]

of course you are :)